Let’s talk about nerves. I say this all the time—it is totally normal to feel nervous before a conversation. In fact, it's a good thing. It means you care. But what you do with that nervousness can completely change how the conversation goes. In this episode, I’m sharing three techniques I use myself and teach often—especially when people ask me how to stay calm, confident, and connected when it matters most. Whether you’ve got a big conversation coming up or just want to communicate with more ease, this one’s for you. This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 40% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Also, come meet me on my book tour! Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show! Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter. Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube Follow me on Instagram Follow me on TikTok Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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It is normal, in fact it is natural, to be nervous before a conversation. But how do you handle that? What do you do to be less nervous? Or what do you do to make the conversation go more smoothly? Well, I have some ideas and we're going to talk about that.
you already know what podcast this is welcome to an early morning episode this is during the book tour i'm doing this early before my kids wake up so if my face looks like it's still waking up it is just go to audio only if it's not not working for you because i'm trying to wake this thing up Here's the thing. You listen to this podcast and it means so much to me.
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I have a membership that I run, an online membership that I started about two months ago, but I haven't been blasting it out and let people know because I just want it to grow organically. And it has been so much fun. It's been so much fun. And I had a question in it yesterday. See, I have every month I do two coaching calls and a masterclass with this group. And
And if you ever want to be part of it, you'll find the links there in the show notes to be part of the membership. And I'd love to have you or the newsletter. I give a lot of the tools right to your inbox weekly. You can find all those tools and links down in the show notes. The question in the membership was, how do you handle conversations when you're nervous before them?
It's totally part of our fight or flight, our fight or flight of what do you do when you're nervous. And here's what I want you to remember. This is what I want to go through in today's episode. Tell them. Tell them whatever feeling you're feeling, get it out. So let's break it down into a traditional one, two, three, right? We like those. I like those.
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