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Pete Earley:From Journalist to Advocate

19 May 2025

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Send us a text Pete Early shares his journey from Washington Post journalist to mental health advocate after his son developed bipolar disorder, revealing how a broken system forces families into crisis before providing help. • Diagnosis came during his son Kevin's college years with warning signs like "food doesn't taste good" and confusion about reality • Psychiatrist delivered a devastating prognosis: "incurable disease" with lifetime medication, weight gain, likely unemployment • Kevin stopped taking medication after a few weeks, leading to psychosis and breaking into a stranger's house • Early couldn't get help until his son became "dangerous" enough for intervention • His son joined 365,000 Americans with serious mental illness who end up in jails and prisons annually • Crisis intervention training for police makes crucial difference in mental health encounters • Recovery came through proper medication, independent living with supportive roommates, and finding purpose as a peer counselor • Early discovered the difference between being a parent versus a partner in someone's recovery • Mental health system requires criminal behavior before providing adequate treatment • Despite Early's connections and resources, getting proper help took years of struggle If you know anyone who would like to share their story on Why Not Me? The World, visit TonyMantor.com/Contact. T ell everyone everywhere about our show and the inspiration our guests provide, reminding you that you are not alone in this world.   https://tonymantor.com https://Facebook.com/tonymantor https://instagram.com/tonymantor https://twitter.com/tonymantor https://youtube.com/tonymantormusic intro/outro music bed written by T. Wild Why Not Me the World music published by Mantor Music (BMI)

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5.796 - 34.026 Tony Mantor

Welcome to Why Not Me? The World Podcast, hosted by Tony Mantor. Broadcasting from Music City, USA, Nashville, Tennessee. Join us as our guests tell us their stories. Some will make you laugh, some will make you cry. real life people who will inspire and show that you are not alone in this world.

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34.927 - 58.606 Tony Mantor

Hopefully, you'll gain more awareness, acceptance, and a better understanding for autism around the world. Hi, I'm Tony Mantor. Welcome to Why Not Me? The World, Humanity Over Handcuffs, the Silent Crisis special event.

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59.406 - 81.076 Tony Mantor

We're joined by Pete Early, an accomplished author of 22 books, including four New York Times bestsellers, with a 14-year journalism career, including six years at the Washington Post. His book, Crazy, chronicles the personal events that led him to advocate for mental health reform. Pete's here to share a wealth of insights. Thanks for coming on.

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81.618 - 85.521 Pete Earley

No, my pleasure. I'm like you. I mean, I want to spread the word.

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85.901 - 97.67 Tony Mantor

Absolutely. I know so many people that say your work is amazing. Your name's everywhere in writing and blogging. What sparked your passion for mental health advocacy?

97.91 - 117.992 Pete Earley

Well, you know, as a reporter, I had covered mental health. I'd covered the great deinstitutionalization process. But I really didn't get it until it happened to my own son. What happened is my son, Kevin, I call him Michael in the book because he was going through all this while I was writing the book.

118.373 - 142.935 Pete Earley

And even six years later, after the book was published, we were going through trying to get him stable, trying to help him move forward. He was in college. We know that most serious mental illnesses emerge in young men and young women from 17 up to 25. That's the prime period. He called me up one day and he said, dad, food doesn't taste good. And he just hung up. Then he called back.

143.015 - 164.445 Pete Earley

He said, dad, I don't know if I'm dreaming or awake. I think I took five homeless people to breakfast. And then he hung up. I called him back. And this time he said, dad, I don't know if I'm dreaming or awake. So I managed to get him in to see a psychiatrist. And I'll never forget what that psychiatrist said. He said to me, after talking to him, he says, if you're lucky, he has a drug problem.

164.985 - 191.059 Pete Earley

If you're not lucky, he has a mental illness. And I thought, I'm lucky if I have a kid with a drug problem? Come on, really? Well, a blood test showed that he didn't have a drug problem. Instead, he was showing signs of bipolar. The doctor really... kind of scared us because he said, I'm not going to sugarcoat this. You have an incurable disease. You will take medications the rest of your life.

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