Abby Wambach

My 45-year-old self is going to be very different than 35.

We're all still growing up and trying to figure out because the world is so different. And so be easy on yourself, Shira, and know that, yes, it feels good to have some structure, but also there has to be a fluidity in the creating of these philosophies or priorities when trying to decide what is most important here. Is it work? Is it marriage? Is it kids?

We're all still growing up and trying to figure out because the world is so different. And so be easy on yourself, Shira, and know that, yes, it feels good to have some structure, but also there has to be a fluidity in the creating of these philosophies or priorities when trying to decide what is most important here. Is it work? Is it marriage? Is it kids?

We're all still growing up and trying to figure out because the world is so different. And so be easy on yourself, Shira, and know that, yes, it feels good to have some structure, but also there has to be a fluidity in the creating of these philosophies or priorities when trying to decide what is most important here. Is it work? Is it marriage? Is it kids?

Is it, you know, support systems around you?

Is it, you know, support systems around you?

Is it, you know, support systems around you?

Right.

Right.

Right.

Oh, interesting.

Oh, interesting.

Oh, interesting.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You do have to move them along. That just makes me think of, this might be a side tangent, but as a step-parent, we call it bonus parent, I have often wondered, and Glendon's been such a wonderful leader in our family in this way and helping me learn how to parent because I became an insta-mom like that. Yeah. In fact, one of the times we were going through a drive-thru and they wanted a cake pop.

You do have to move them along. That just makes me think of, this might be a side tangent, but as a step-parent, we call it bonus parent, I have often wondered, and Glendon's been such a wonderful leader in our family in this way and helping me learn how to parent because I became an insta-mom like that. Yeah. In fact, one of the times we were going through a drive-thru and they wanted a cake pop.

You do have to move them along. That just makes me think of, this might be a side tangent, but as a step-parent, we call it bonus parent, I have often wondered, and Glendon's been such a wonderful leader in our family in this way and helping me learn how to parent because I became an insta-mom like that. Yeah. In fact, one of the times we were going through a drive-thru and they wanted a cake pop.

And I said, yes, this is great. I'm going to get cake pops. And they said, can we have one? I'm like, yes, okay. And so I ordered and they said, how many? And I said, all of them. And I said, oh, no, I will turn this car around. Nobody gets any cake, no cake pops. I was just trying to buy their love.