Abby Wambach

You want my email passwords?

Yeah. I mean, I don't know. Have you been looking at my phone?

Yeah. I mean, I don't know. Have you been looking at my phone?

Yeah. I mean, I don't know. Have you been looking at my phone?

But now we have each other's passwords to everything. Like, I can open her computer with my fingerprint. Like, the whole thing.

But now we have each other's passwords to everything. Like, I can open her computer with my fingerprint. Like, the whole thing.

But now we have each other's passwords to everything. Like, I can open her computer with my fingerprint. Like, the whole thing.

Well, you have to think about it because there's the defensiveness that shows up, right? And what is underneath the defensiveness? It's like, okay, they don't trust me. Then that's like the next level. And then you have to go deeper than that. It's like, why don't they trust me? And then it has literally probably nothing to do with you. That's right.

Well, you have to think about it because there's the defensiveness that shows up, right? And what is underneath the defensiveness? It's like, okay, they don't trust me. Then that's like the next level. And then you have to go deeper than that. It's like, why don't they trust me? And then it has literally probably nothing to do with you. That's right.

Well, you have to think about it because there's the defensiveness that shows up, right? And what is underneath the defensiveness? It's like, okay, they don't trust me. Then that's like the next level. And then you have to go deeper than that. It's like, why don't they trust me? And then it has literally probably nothing to do with you. That's right.

So it's like if you can do that equation and process that really quickly, look, I have been the one that's like, what, you don't trust me and I'm defensive and I'm like standing in the trust part of it. It's like actually go one step deeper and honesty, like being honest with yourself. Because if you have untrustworthy behavior –

So it's like if you can do that equation and process that really quickly, look, I have been the one that's like, what, you don't trust me and I'm defensive and I'm like standing in the trust part of it. It's like actually go one step deeper and honesty, like being honest with yourself. Because if you have untrustworthy behavior –

So it's like if you can do that equation and process that really quickly, look, I have been the one that's like, what, you don't trust me and I'm defensive and I'm like standing in the trust part of it. It's like actually go one step deeper and honesty, like being honest with yourself. Because if you have untrustworthy behavior –

That would kind of propel somebody or make them want to look through your stuff in a way to like figure out where you are or like find my whatever. Like, of course that you will. Yeah, it's just important to do that process and to realize it's not necessarily a lot of stuff in relationship isn't about you.

That would kind of propel somebody or make them want to look through your stuff in a way to like figure out where you are or like find my whatever. Like, of course that you will. Yeah, it's just important to do that process and to realize it's not necessarily a lot of stuff in relationship isn't about you.

That would kind of propel somebody or make them want to look through your stuff in a way to like figure out where you are or like find my whatever. Like, of course that you will. Yeah, it's just important to do that process and to realize it's not necessarily a lot of stuff in relationship isn't about you.

something that works for us is to like know what makes each other feel like that, that intimacy connection is there because we've been together for 10 years ish.

something that works for us is to like know what makes each other feel like that, that intimacy connection is there because we've been together for 10 years ish.

something that works for us is to like know what makes each other feel like that, that intimacy connection is there because we've been together for 10 years ish.

almost yeah we're almost like we're in our ninth year oh my god um and we've gone through ups and downs of of not just like the actual act of like sex but like we've gone through ups and downs of feeling really connected and so in line and so on the same page and then you know stuff happens people die Diagnosis has happened and it forces you kind of away from like this homeostasis line in a way.