Abby

Something interesting.

Yeah.

A pro is that it was really easy to adjust to marriage.

Yeah.

Because we didn't know any different.

I never lived independently.

We had no money.

We had no money.

And so like the financial transition, the life transition was actually really easy.

Like I don't remember having any like...

major hiccups because I was just like yeah yeah you didn't have any like routines that you were set in or yeah you didn't have a stable job that I was like I need to be here for this job like we were just very flexible like everything was I was in college like everything was so flexible at that time everything was so low stakes whereas like say I had been with my job and they're like wanting to transfer me to a different state and I was like like that would have been

like a logistical problem more than anything.

But, and then you do have to make decisions like what's more important at this point.

And so like everything was just really low stakes at that point.

So that was a really easy transition.

I was like, yeah, everything's fine.

A lot of people go into serious debt.

That's really low.

It was hard.

And I think you build so much trust.