Adam Coleman

Yeah, that's exactly right. The most important parent to a child is the same sex parent. And if we're looking at violence, predominantly it comes from the men. So the boys grow up and they either don't have a model within their home or they're, like you said, they have a model of a abusive father figure that they repeat. And so this is basically the outcome.

Yeah, that's exactly right. The most important parent to a child is the same sex parent. And if we're looking at violence, predominantly it comes from the men. So the boys grow up and they either don't have a model within their home or they're, like you said, they have a model of a abusive father figure that they repeat. And so this is basically the outcome.

And a lot of times that violent outburst is a result of being frustrated. Maybe they're not being seen. Maybe they're looking for attention. Maybe something is physically or sexually happening to them.

And a lot of times that violent outburst is a result of being frustrated. Maybe they're not being seen. Maybe they're looking for attention. Maybe something is physically or sexually happening to them.

so these are various reasons as to why they start going into a in a violent path on top of that you have external influences so gang culture for example it's a way for young men to feel some sort of camaraderie to have some sort of direction there's usually an older male model within that group of young men who instructs the younger boys

so these are various reasons as to why they start going into a in a violent path on top of that you have external influences so gang culture for example it's a way for young men to feel some sort of camaraderie to have some sort of direction there's usually an older male model within that group of young men who instructs the younger boys

So there's usually something that ties to it, starting from their home, their home life. And I always say a happy child isn't conducting themselves in a violent manner. So something is going on.

So there's usually something that ties to it, starting from their home, their home life. And I always say a happy child isn't conducting themselves in a violent manner. So something is going on.

Well, see, that's the thing, I don't get a lot of pushback about it because people know this, they understand this. It's just that it's a massive problem and to resolve it, it's about looking at ourselves as the individual. As each individual family has to take responsibility for their conduct and even more so how they approach family planning.

Well, see, that's the thing, I don't get a lot of pushback about it because people know this, they understand this. It's just that it's a massive problem and to resolve it, it's about looking at ourselves as the individual. As each individual family has to take responsibility for their conduct and even more so how they approach family planning.

And much of what I've been writing about is talking about parental selfishness, making family about the adults instead of the children. So the adults get to act like children, they get to act whimsical, sleep with whoever, procreate without a plan, and chase all types of dreams that they want.

And much of what I've been writing about is talking about parental selfishness, making family about the adults instead of the children. So the adults get to act like children, they get to act whimsical, sleep with whoever, procreate without a plan, and chase all types of dreams that they want.

And the children are expected to respond like adults, just understand adult dynamics, adult relationships, and they just get dragged along because mommy or daddy makes a choice and they have to deal with it.

And the children are expected to respond like adults, just understand adult dynamics, adult relationships, and they just get dragged along because mommy or daddy makes a choice and they have to deal with it.

That's exactly it. I think we've lost one of the most important aspects of love and when it comes to relationships, and it's the willingness to sacrifice. And that's what we're supposed to do for our children. We're supposed to sacrifice for them.

That's exactly it. I think we've lost one of the most important aspects of love and when it comes to relationships, and it's the willingness to sacrifice. And that's what we're supposed to do for our children. We're supposed to sacrifice for them.

And a lot of these marriages, I mean, I'm sure you've dealt with this, where you're listening to their problems and you're like, I mean, yes, it's a problem, but you can resolve it. But someone is hellbent on separating the family and someone has too much pride. Someone is seeing maybe they already started looking outside the marriage and they just want to end it so they can start over.

And a lot of these marriages, I mean, I'm sure you've dealt with this, where you're listening to their problems and you're like, I mean, yes, it's a problem, but you can resolve it. But someone is hellbent on separating the family and someone has too much pride. Someone is seeing maybe they already started looking outside the marriage and they just want to end it so they can start over.

But they're thinking about everything else except sacrificing their pride, their ego, their sexual appetite, sacrificing those things for their children. And so what I'm trying to encourage is before you make a rash decision, Or a big decision, maybe something that you've thought about for quite some time. Have you thought about it from your child's perspective?

But they're thinking about everything else except sacrificing their pride, their ego, their sexual appetite, sacrificing those things for their children. And so what I'm trying to encourage is before you make a rash decision, Or a big decision, maybe something that you've thought about for quite some time. Have you thought about it from your child's perspective?