Adam

It's about a lightheartedness.

Yeah, I mean, sex can be really intense sometimes and really emotional sometimes.

But other times they can just be silly and fun.

And if you're someone who just takes it way too seriously, takes yourself way too seriously, that's not going to work.

You know, I want someone I can say, babe, I just need a fucking blowjob.

Could we just, is that like, oh yeah, sure, no problem.

Like someone who's just light about things.

I don't, I want people who are like, okay, yeah, that's not for me, but not, ew, just like, yeah, I don't want, yeah, no, I don't really want to stick my fist up your ass, you know?

Whatever it is.

Right, right, right.

Okay.

But who could laugh about it, right?

Whatever it is, who can laugh?

You got to be able to laugh at yourself, especially around sex because it's just, it's... Yeah, but I also though, the ill thing, I don't want somebody that like...

And that's exactly what I'm talking about.

Yeah, this goes into the one last deal breaker before we go.

This is actually probably one of the absolute top ones.

Oh, good, good, good.

Even if I'm in a monogamous relationship, and I probably wouldn't be, but I might be, I never want to feel like I have to hide my attraction to other women.

I don't want to have to pretend you're the only woman.