Adele Wimsett
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Neotypical people aren't doing this. They're just getting up and doing their thing.
Neotypical people aren't doing this. They're just getting up and doing their thing.
It's too much. It's like scrambled egg for my brain. My brain tends to scramble eggs. So I'm like, I literally, a time zone. And I'm like, I'm a clever woman. I am a clever woman. And we have the internet.
It's too much. It's like scrambled egg for my brain. My brain tends to scramble eggs. So I'm like, I literally, a time zone. And I'm like, I'm a clever woman. I am a clever woman. And we have the internet.
It's too much. It's like scrambled egg for my brain. My brain tends to scramble eggs. So I'm like, I literally, a time zone. And I'm like, I'm a clever woman. I am a clever woman. And we have the internet.
I think it is a huge topic for women. And perimenopause for me, one of the biggest gifts is boundaries, the invitation to step into boundaries. I'm called the queen of boundaries. I feel so like, no, this is my boundary around where I refuse to abandon my needs anymore.
I think it is a huge topic for women. And perimenopause for me, one of the biggest gifts is boundaries, the invitation to step into boundaries. I'm called the queen of boundaries. I feel so like, no, this is my boundary around where I refuse to abandon my needs anymore.
I think it is a huge topic for women. And perimenopause for me, one of the biggest gifts is boundaries, the invitation to step into boundaries. I'm called the queen of boundaries. I feel so like, no, this is my boundary around where I refuse to abandon my needs anymore.
in this, but we would, there's so much to receive this message as a woman, because we are taught quite literally that to be a good girl, we have to make sure everyone else is comfortable over our own needs. Okay. A lot of us learned that to mother was to abandon our own needs and just be in service to everybody else.
in this, but we would, there's so much to receive this message as a woman, because we are taught quite literally that to be a good girl, we have to make sure everyone else is comfortable over our own needs. Okay. A lot of us learned that to mother was to abandon our own needs and just be in service to everybody else.
in this, but we would, there's so much to receive this message as a woman, because we are taught quite literally that to be a good girl, we have to make sure everyone else is comfortable over our own needs. Okay. A lot of us learned that to mother was to abandon our own needs and just be in service to everybody else.
You know, a lot of us, we had a really toxic role models about what it meant to be good as a woman and putting a boundary and made you a bitch. Yeah.
You know, a lot of us, we had a really toxic role models about what it meant to be good as a woman and putting a boundary and made you a bitch. Yeah.
You know, a lot of us, we had a really toxic role models about what it meant to be good as a woman and putting a boundary and made you a bitch. Yeah.
you know to say no so it's really like oh I didn't want to be that so I would rather just people please so that no one sees beneath the masking and everyone thinks I'm really nice you know and we don't talk about this difference between being nice and being kind you know I'm a really kind person but I wouldn't fit in the nice box probably
you know to say no so it's really like oh I didn't want to be that so I would rather just people please so that no one sees beneath the masking and everyone thinks I'm really nice you know and we don't talk about this difference between being nice and being kind you know I'm a really kind person but I wouldn't fit in the nice box probably
you know to say no so it's really like oh I didn't want to be that so I would rather just people please so that no one sees beneath the masking and everyone thinks I'm really nice you know and we don't talk about this difference between being nice and being kind you know I'm a really kind person but I wouldn't fit in the nice box probably
Because of having those kind of boundaries and because of being, integrity means so much to me. You know, I can't morph myself into something anymore as I did when I was younger, which I didn't realize I was doing. But that was what, you know, that it wasn't conscious, but I was masking to survive. Like the thought of doing that now, it feels suffocating and so oppressive that it's just a no. Yes.
Because of having those kind of boundaries and because of being, integrity means so much to me. You know, I can't morph myself into something anymore as I did when I was younger, which I didn't realize I was doing. But that was what, you know, that it wasn't conscious, but I was masking to survive. Like the thought of doing that now, it feels suffocating and so oppressive that it's just a no. Yes.
Because of having those kind of boundaries and because of being, integrity means so much to me. You know, I can't morph myself into something anymore as I did when I was younger, which I didn't realize I was doing. But that was what, you know, that it wasn't conscious, but I was masking to survive. Like the thought of doing that now, it feels suffocating and so oppressive that it's just a no. Yes.