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Was there a mental trick you did where it was like you were insecure yet you were somehow outgoing towards men or were you afraid to even approach men? Yeah.

Uh-huh. Did you, you had boyfriends in college, I assume?

Uh-huh. Did you, you had boyfriends in college, I assume?

Uh-huh. Did you, you had boyfriends in college, I assume?

You can also just go, I don't understand why you want to know about my boyfriends. No, no, no.

You can also just go, I don't understand why you want to know about my boyfriends. No, no, no.

You can also just go, I don't understand why you want to know about my boyfriends. No, no, no.

Well, I can just say personally, I have this body dysmorphic view of my whole being. And yet I was so outwardly confident and I would talk to any girl and I would get them laughing. You know, I did all these things that are really counterintuitive to how I felt. Right. But then my trick was like, oh, no, you're not going to ever get anyone with this. So you got to lead with this personality.

Well, I can just say personally, I have this body dysmorphic view of my whole being. And yet I was so outwardly confident and I would talk to any girl and I would get them laughing. You know, I did all these things that are really counterintuitive to how I felt. Right. But then my trick was like, oh, no, you're not going to ever get anyone with this. So you got to lead with this personality.

Well, I can just say personally, I have this body dysmorphic view of my whole being. And yet I was so outwardly confident and I would talk to any girl and I would get them laughing. You know, I did all these things that are really counterintuitive to how I felt. Right. But then my trick was like, oh, no, you're not going to ever get anyone with this. So you got to lead with this personality.

Like you're going to snag somebody. You got to get out there. You got to have a bullhorn of charisma or you're not. Now, mind you, I wasn't accurate on either assessment of my personality was or how unattractive my physical was. But it was a weird paradox of feelings versus my behavior.

Like you're going to snag somebody. You got to get out there. You got to have a bullhorn of charisma or you're not. Now, mind you, I wasn't accurate on either assessment of my personality was or how unattractive my physical was. But it was a weird paradox of feelings versus my behavior.

Like you're going to snag somebody. You got to get out there. You got to have a bullhorn of charisma or you're not. Now, mind you, I wasn't accurate on either assessment of my personality was or how unattractive my physical was. But it was a weird paradox of feelings versus my behavior.

And just laid it out there.

And just laid it out there.

And just laid it out there.

Yeah. Yeah. He's the ultimate prom king.

Yeah. Yeah. He's the ultimate prom king.

Yeah. Yeah. He's the ultimate prom king.

Well, again, you have a broader romantic narrative you're spinning. And then for that narrative to work, the characters within the narrative have to act a certain way to hold up the story.