Alex Cooper

And I totally get it.

Also, there's really lovely things about tradition, right?

And sometimes we don't need to think too much into it.

But as a woman, this this is something that it is fair to ask the question about, because guess what?

I'm about to push a baby out of my fucking vagina and all these women.

And then we just I do all this work.

And then we put the man's last name on the baby like there.

It begs to have some questions and some conversations.

So have the conversation with him.

And if he completely shuts you down and he's a misogynistic pig and he's like, I don't really give a fuck, probably not your husband.

Girl, that just fucking riled me up.

But I do think that's the point is like,

What we're missing is like, it is so okay to go with tradition, but you have to make sure that you're doing it because you're like, oh yeah, like that's fun and nice.

And like, I'm down, yeah.

But we had the conversation and I know you respect me and this is...

a mutual decision that we've both made and we've talked through incessantly and we both feel really good about it you didn't just get to make the decision and be like if not like i'll go find another fucking bitch that will do it like i'm not gonna put up with this and then you just have to like scurry and chase after him and like go along with it that's not how you have to live your life okay how should i think about it when my long-term boyfriend is invited to weddings without me in general but specifically when the person knows me and is connected to his family

I don't like this.

I don't like this at all.

And I don't like this because I hate doing this, but my first question is like, what have you been up to?

I don't like looking at the daddy gang with suspicious eyes, but I'm like, what's going on?