Alex Cooper

There may be some of you listening right now who are engaged, but something in your gut is telling you that they're not the right person. But maybe you stay because you already, whether it's you already put the down payment on your wedding or your families get along and you feel like you've invested too much time. There's no way that I could start over. I get it. It's hard.

But my advice is don't be short-sighted. Fuck the plan. Fuck the timeline. You can start over with anything at any point in your life, whether it's moving to a new city, you're ending a relationship, you want to get out of a job you're miserable at, or you're pushing back when you want to have kids. I feel like we have this story in our head that we tell ourselves about

But my advice is don't be short-sighted. Fuck the plan. Fuck the timeline. You can start over with anything at any point in your life, whether it's moving to a new city, you're ending a relationship, you want to get out of a job you're miserable at, or you're pushing back when you want to have kids. I feel like we have this story in our head that we tell ourselves about

But my advice is don't be short-sighted. Fuck the plan. Fuck the timeline. You can start over with anything at any point in your life, whether it's moving to a new city, you're ending a relationship, you want to get out of a job you're miserable at, or you're pushing back when you want to have kids. I feel like we have this story in our head that we tell ourselves about

why we can't make certain changes. Timelines, yes, they can help us feel safe and comfortable like we have structure and maybe like we have a sense of security. But the minute a timeline, Daddy Gang, starts to make you feel anxious or stuck, please be honest with yourself and check in with yourself because I think that's when you really need to start reevaluating. As difficult as it was,

why we can't make certain changes. Timelines, yes, they can help us feel safe and comfortable like we have structure and maybe like we have a sense of security. But the minute a timeline, Daddy Gang, starts to make you feel anxious or stuck, please be honest with yourself and check in with yourself because I think that's when you really need to start reevaluating. As difficult as it was,

why we can't make certain changes. Timelines, yes, they can help us feel safe and comfortable like we have structure and maybe like we have a sense of security. But the minute a timeline, Daddy Gang, starts to make you feel anxious or stuck, please be honest with yourself and check in with yourself because I think that's when you really need to start reevaluating. As difficult as it was,

to want to get pregnant and then need to pause, I look back and I am so fucking grateful that all of that happened. Because changing the timeline allowed me to really look inward and recognize that I wasn't ready. And that's okay. So... For now, I still have things in my life that I wanna do before having kids and I'm gonna let myself Do them. I'm going to enjoy it.

to want to get pregnant and then need to pause, I look back and I am so fucking grateful that all of that happened. Because changing the timeline allowed me to really look inward and recognize that I wasn't ready. And that's okay. So... For now, I still have things in my life that I wanna do before having kids and I'm gonna let myself Do them. I'm going to enjoy it.

to want to get pregnant and then need to pause, I look back and I am so fucking grateful that all of that happened. Because changing the timeline allowed me to really look inward and recognize that I wasn't ready. And that's okay. So... For now, I still have things in my life that I wanna do before having kids and I'm gonna let myself Do them. I'm going to enjoy it.

And I think especially to any of the women listening, there is something I feel like we all have like an aversion to the word like be selfish. And because I feel like that's just not what we're taught to do. Don't be selfish. Like, what do you fucking mean be selfish? And it felt odd for me to.

And I think especially to any of the women listening, there is something I feel like we all have like an aversion to the word like be selfish. And because I feel like that's just not what we're taught to do. Don't be selfish. Like, what do you fucking mean be selfish? And it felt odd for me to.

And I think especially to any of the women listening, there is something I feel like we all have like an aversion to the word like be selfish. And because I feel like that's just not what we're taught to do. Don't be selfish. Like, what do you fucking mean be selfish? And it felt odd for me to.

lean into that concept but I don't know if you guys well I guess you probably have seen on social media like I've been bopping around and I'm throwing these parties and I'm having so much fun because I'm like bitch I'm living and it doesn't mean you can't live once you have kids it's just your life is different in a beautiful way and so I'm having the fucking time of my life like Matt and I have so many plans for this summer and

lean into that concept but I don't know if you guys well I guess you probably have seen on social media like I've been bopping around and I'm throwing these parties and I'm having so much fun because I'm like bitch I'm living and it doesn't mean you can't live once you have kids it's just your life is different in a beautiful way and so I'm having the fucking time of my life like Matt and I have so many plans for this summer and

lean into that concept but I don't know if you guys well I guess you probably have seen on social media like I've been bopping around and I'm throwing these parties and I'm having so much fun because I'm like bitch I'm living and it doesn't mean you can't live once you have kids it's just your life is different in a beautiful way and so I'm having the fucking time of my life like Matt and I have so many plans for this summer and

And we were definitely like, oh, we're doing like a little bit more than we usually would and traveling or like going with our friends places and partying and having fun. And then we both just keep looking at each other being like, let's just fucking go and do it. This is what this year is for.

And we were definitely like, oh, we're doing like a little bit more than we usually would and traveling or like going with our friends places and partying and having fun. And then we both just keep looking at each other being like, let's just fucking go and do it. This is what this year is for.

And we were definitely like, oh, we're doing like a little bit more than we usually would and traveling or like going with our friends places and partying and having fun. And then we both just keep looking at each other being like, let's just fucking go and do it. This is what this year is for.

And we still will do those things, but it will just look different when we are able to hopefully like build a family. So Daddy Yang, I guess I will leave you with choose yourself and choose what's right for you. And just know that I love you and I'm so grateful that I feel comfortable to share all this with you. And again, thank you for always supporting me.