Alex Warren

So for me, now that I'm, that's a better half of my entire life.

I catch myself arguing with my wife, trying to win,

opposed to trying to understand where they're coming from.

It's like you hear something and that's the biggest thing is the last two years of my life have been me just trying to put myself in other people's shoes because that's the one thing I carried away from it was,

whenever someone would argue with me, I didn't care about how they felt.

I cared about winning the argument and I had to take a step back.

And I think once I started music, especially, and just really writing records, it really kind of changed who I am now.

And I've been able to really emotionally be present in a lot of things and understand that, you know,

how someone feels is important, you know?

And I know that.

And after, I remember after every argument, I'd be like, wow, I'm a piece of shit.

I didn't like, I obviously care.

I obviously care.

But during that moment, it just, it was instinct of just to be combative.

And so I remember it would be an hour long conversation just for it to end with,

I'm sorry.

Like, that's not.

You know, and so it's just, that's been definitely one of the things I've carried from my mom.

It's just truly like, you know, that relationship where there was just so that, you know.

The cycles, I think, wow, I don't know.