Alice

And so I, you know, in my, his parents have both passed away.

Yeah, he does.

And, um,

Yeah, he does.

And that's created a lot of tension in our marriage, too, that he wants me to reconcile.

And I guess I mean, I should add, too, that my brother-in-law's wife, my sister-in-law, she she was definitely unkind for the several years leading up to like the big.

Betrayal, like she wouldn't, she just made conversation very difficult, would make snide little comments.

And so it's hard for me to be supportive in trying to associate with people that I felt like never respected, me in particular, but us together.

Yeah, that's exactly how I felt.

And I mean, he approached my husband and said, oh, I'll say whatever you want me to say.

Let's just, you know, get along.

Yeah, that's exactly.

But my husband does.

He's the youngest.

I'm also the youngest.

So I feel like that's a part of it where...

When you're like the younger sibling, then you look at your older sibling with scars in your eyes all the time.

Well, I don't, I mean, that's, that's fine.

And I, you know, I have not stood in the way of that.

And I think, you know, if y'all want to call each other or meet up, that's great.