Allie Lima

And so after I said, no, um,

and like explain myself, Anton said, that's fair.

And that didn't make the cut.

And I feel like that would have added a lot of like understanding because he did agree with me when I expressed my side of things to him.

So saying like, that's fair would have been made like the world of a difference to the context of like our relationship and his understanding and his role.

Yeah, not not the actual flip flop moment in Baja.

Not that.

That was something that was cut out of the reunion where I was like lightheartedly the flip flops and like we're on such good terms.

It was such a lighthearted joke.

And then I went into like the real reasons that I ended up deciding to say no.

We did have a conversation.

I would say probably yesterday.

three, four days prior to the wedding where I was like, hey, just so you're aware, I don't know if I see myself being able to get there with you.

And that's when I really just laid things out so openly to him.

And I was like, you haven't been yourself.

I feel like I can't talk to you.

You don't greet me when you come home.

Just so many things.

And I discussed how he eats junk food all the time, or at least the time did.

Wasn't super healthy and active and