Allison

Actually, so when I sent this email in, we're probably at the four month mark now, but it was about two and a half months when I sent this email in and we have actually gone through some like triumphs because I got to the point where I didn't feel like a priority.

Triumphs.

triumphs good in a good way okay yeah in a good way but also trials like we went through we went to trial and error let's just say so like we had a lot of conversations and that made like that made me feel really good because he was communicating with me and trying to make me feel like a priority but i just you can't really feel like a priority when he has two kids under the age of six and he still has this obligation so i kind of put myself down to the bottom of the list and then i realized i was settling for less than i deserved and so we started having some more

intense conversations and then he just got super overwhelmed and he hasn't been communicating with me about what's going on on her end and she is in his ear all day every day and making things very difficult she's telling the kids to say things to him and stuff about mommy and daddy getting back together

The kids call him and say, like, I want to see you right now when she knows we're together.

Like, she just tries to pull these strings and it's made him completely back away.

And then therefore, I've honestly got a little emotionally numb to it because I'm just like, what am I doing here?

I think that he was probably looking for something casual and didn't expect to meet someone.

They were separated?

They were separated, yeah.

Honestly, it was, it was, it was a really close timeframe.

I think they were only living apart for like six months.

So in my opinion, I think it was still too fast.

Just looking how much is still on his plate.

Clearly he's 36, 35, 35.

It is.

It is.

It was just unnecessary.

He's not even mentally capable of adding more to his plate.

He also has his own company.