Allyson Rees

Exactly.

That's like such a great way of putting it.

I think that what has happened is that we've made everything so expensive.

And so it's like there's this expectation of like, well, you're going to come to my wedding and then you're going to give me this certain amount of money back.

We sort of lost like, not to be cheesy, but kind of like what it's all about.

And we want people to buy specific things off the registry.

Don't go off registry because that's not my personal style or whatever.

Whereas like for years it was like, oh, my grandmother knitted us this thing or she gave us this gift or, and now it's like everything is just so black and white of like

Get me this.

Oh my gosh.