Alyssa Nobriga
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I was like, oh, they just didn't hear me. It wasn't even in my realm of possibility thinking that they wouldn't have signed up. So I was like, and stand. And they still didn't stand up. And then I think I said it again. And one person stood up. And that's when I knew it was a flop. And I, in the past, before having the tools, would have gone down a shame spiral.
I was like, oh, they just didn't hear me. It wasn't even in my realm of possibility thinking that they wouldn't have signed up. So I was like, and stand. And they still didn't stand up. And then I think I said it again. And one person stood up. And that's when I knew it was a flop. And I, in the past, before having the tools, would have gone down a shame spiral.
I would have really been caught in, I'm not good enough. The ego really wants to make it personal and mean something about ourselves and And I would have missed the opportunity to see that at the end of the event, there was a bunch of women lined up in the back asking questions.
I would have really been caught in, I'm not good enough. The ego really wants to make it personal and mean something about ourselves and And I would have missed the opportunity to see that at the end of the event, there was a bunch of women lined up in the back asking questions.
I would have really been caught in, I'm not good enough. The ego really wants to make it personal and mean something about ourselves and And I would have missed the opportunity to see that at the end of the event, there was a bunch of women lined up in the back asking questions.
And what that told me, because I didn't go into that shame spiral, and I really did, you know, I had feelings about it, but I didn't stay there. I really offered myself compassion and self-forgiveness.
And what that told me, because I didn't go into that shame spiral, and I really did, you know, I had feelings about it, but I didn't stay there. I really offered myself compassion and self-forgiveness.
And what that told me, because I didn't go into that shame spiral, and I really did, you know, I had feelings about it, but I didn't stay there. I really offered myself compassion and self-forgiveness.
and because of that i was able to stay creative and really see the evidence of what was happening that a lot of people had questions they were interested so instead of not pitching the next day and feeling shameful i went back up on stage and i made a clearer pitch i still needed to have a lot of conversations afterwards because it wasn't such a clean pitch the way that it first was but i didn't give up i stayed in conversations serving people until we filled the mastermind so it took a little bit of work at the end but again i think
and because of that i was able to stay creative and really see the evidence of what was happening that a lot of people had questions they were interested so instead of not pitching the next day and feeling shameful i went back up on stage and i made a clearer pitch i still needed to have a lot of conversations afterwards because it wasn't such a clean pitch the way that it first was but i didn't give up i stayed in conversations serving people until we filled the mastermind so it took a little bit of work at the end but again i think
and because of that i was able to stay creative and really see the evidence of what was happening that a lot of people had questions they were interested so instead of not pitching the next day and feeling shameful i went back up on stage and i made a clearer pitch i still needed to have a lot of conversations afterwards because it wasn't such a clean pitch the way that it first was but i didn't give up i stayed in conversations serving people until we filled the mastermind so it took a little bit of work at the end but again i think
I think having a healthy relationship with failure, meaning it doesn't mean anything about us, maybe our skill about pitching or sales or whatnot, but it doesn't mean anything about us has been really helpful. And to not give up when it's hard.
I think having a healthy relationship with failure, meaning it doesn't mean anything about us, maybe our skill about pitching or sales or whatnot, but it doesn't mean anything about us has been really helpful. And to not give up when it's hard.
I think having a healthy relationship with failure, meaning it doesn't mean anything about us, maybe our skill about pitching or sales or whatnot, but it doesn't mean anything about us has been really helpful. And to not give up when it's hard.
It's like, okay, if this is true for you, still go for it and know that you can actually have the success you want if you don't give up, if it's really alive and aligned.
It's like, okay, if this is true for you, still go for it and know that you can actually have the success you want if you don't give up, if it's really alive and aligned.
It's like, okay, if this is true for you, still go for it and know that you can actually have the success you want if you don't give up, if it's really alive and aligned.
Yeah, it's a lot easier when the personalization of who I am, I'm not a failure, it failed. It's just a lot easier to do that. And of course, like the mind can get caught up and then it's just having the tools to come back to what's true. I found to be most helpful.
Yeah, it's a lot easier when the personalization of who I am, I'm not a failure, it failed. It's just a lot easier to do that. And of course, like the mind can get caught up and then it's just having the tools to come back to what's true. I found to be most helpful.
Yeah, it's a lot easier when the personalization of who I am, I'm not a failure, it failed. It's just a lot easier to do that. And of course, like the mind can get caught up and then it's just having the tools to come back to what's true. I found to be most helpful.