Alyssa Nobriga
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And then there's less trying to manipulate and control life outside of us because we are sourced. There's a deeper truth. And actually, I was going to bring this up because I did some work with my husband, with David Data, and I was talking to him and I said something about toxic masculinity and femininity. He said, try on, instead of saying toxic, saying undeveloped.
And I really appreciated that because it felt more compassionate. It's not intentional. It's just young. It's just unconscious, but it also feels more true. And so these undeveloped patterns and ways of being feminine, masculine that we all have within us, I think it's helpful. I don't know if there's any kind of
And I really appreciated that because it felt more compassionate. It's not intentional. It's just young. It's just unconscious, but it also feels more true. And so these undeveloped patterns and ways of being feminine, masculine that we all have within us, I think it's helpful. I don't know if there's any kind of
And I really appreciated that because it felt more compassionate. It's not intentional. It's just young. It's just unconscious, but it also feels more true. And so these undeveloped patterns and ways of being feminine, masculine that we all have within us, I think it's helpful. I don't know if there's any kind of
trends or maybe even in heterosexual relationships that you have found that maybe to speak more from the the male perspective i'm curious if there are things that you've discovered in your work just around kind of relational patterns or like undeveloped masculinity
trends or maybe even in heterosexual relationships that you have found that maybe to speak more from the the male perspective i'm curious if there are things that you've discovered in your work just around kind of relational patterns or like undeveloped masculinity
trends or maybe even in heterosexual relationships that you have found that maybe to speak more from the the male perspective i'm curious if there are things that you've discovered in your work just around kind of relational patterns or like undeveloped masculinity
I remember my husband doing some of that work and saying, am I the man that I would want my daughters to date? that became a huge integrity barometer of like, check, like, am I really embodying that?
I remember my husband doing some of that work and saying, am I the man that I would want my daughters to date? that became a huge integrity barometer of like, check, like, am I really embodying that?
I remember my husband doing some of that work and saying, am I the man that I would want my daughters to date? that became a huge integrity barometer of like, check, like, am I really embodying that?
And I think back to your point of having a community that mirrors values, not overcompensating for who we think the undeveloped masculine is, but just having communities are, what is the consciousness of the communities that we're in or what movies or podcasts or games are we watching or our kids watching that are really
And I think back to your point of having a community that mirrors values, not overcompensating for who we think the undeveloped masculine is, but just having communities are, what is the consciousness of the communities that we're in or what movies or podcasts or games are we watching or our kids watching that are really
And I think back to your point of having a community that mirrors values, not overcompensating for who we think the undeveloped masculine is, but just having communities are, what is the consciousness of the communities that we're in or what movies or podcasts or games are we watching or our kids watching that are really
influencing how we be in the world, I think is important, because we're communal beings, and so we're gonna want to. Totally.
influencing how we be in the world, I think is important, because we're communal beings, and so we're gonna want to. Totally.
influencing how we be in the world, I think is important, because we're communal beings, and so we're gonna want to. Totally.
And I think where we come from in what we're doing is more important than what we're doing in terms of Am I wanting to be a stay-at-home mom? Am I wanting to work? Do I want to do both? Or, you know, hunting with reverence, with respect, not just, like, slaughtering. You know, like, I think the intention behind it also is important, but being authentic and being true to ourselves. Yeah.
And I think where we come from in what we're doing is more important than what we're doing in terms of Am I wanting to be a stay-at-home mom? Am I wanting to work? Do I want to do both? Or, you know, hunting with reverence, with respect, not just, like, slaughtering. You know, like, I think the intention behind it also is important, but being authentic and being true to ourselves. Yeah.
And I think where we come from in what we're doing is more important than what we're doing in terms of Am I wanting to be a stay-at-home mom? Am I wanting to work? Do I want to do both? Or, you know, hunting with reverence, with respect, not just, like, slaughtering. You know, like, I think the intention behind it also is important, but being authentic and being true to ourselves. Yeah.
Yeah. I love the reverence that we can come to within each other. And then as we wake up to the truth of who and what we are, we see that mirrored in our partners. And in conscious relationship, we can be those mirrors to help us see parts of ourselves that haven't been seen so that we wake up more fully. And I think there's no better gift