Amanda Luxon

So he's not the only thing in my life.

It absolutely does.

And that's a really important point, Dom, because when we went into this, there were a whole lot of things that we said, this is a season.

And in this season, there's going to be a whole lot of unexpected things and there's going to be a whole lot of things that maybe would happen that might not happen in another season and that that is all okay.

So I'm on the phone the other night and it's half past seven and he was due home at like, you know,

quarter to eight or something in from Wellington.

And so, you know, I've done the good thing.

The fish pie is sitting there.

I'm very proud of the fish pie.

I know he likes fish pie.

He's had a hard week.

And I said, oh, how far away are you?

And there was sort of silence on the end of the phone.

And he goes, oh,

I'm still in Wellington.

And it's like, oh, okay, so I've got a choice, don't I?

I can sit there and go, okay, that's not okay.

Nobody told me.

You're not being home tonight, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Or you just go, that has no reward, that kind of behavior.