Amanda

I'm not even close to the college situation. I guess I'm interested if there is any data on what conditions, what parameters, what kind of context you can help create for kids to have short-term, long-term health success benefit from sport. as opposed to like where the red flags are. When you say long-term, the people who have been total immersion, high intensity actually fare worse.

I'm not even close to the college situation. I guess I'm interested if there is any data on what conditions, what parameters, what kind of context you can help create for kids to have short-term, long-term health success benefit from sport. as opposed to like where the red flags are. When you say long-term, the people who have been total immersion, high intensity actually fare worse.

Like where's the sweet spot and what conditions can parents do to create that sweet spot? So they would get the benefit of sports without the the detriment that is the flip side of it.

Like where's the sweet spot and what conditions can parents do to create that sweet spot? So they would get the benefit of sports without the the detriment that is the flip side of it.

Like where's the sweet spot and what conditions can parents do to create that sweet spot? So they would get the benefit of sports without the the detriment that is the flip side of it.

I mean, even the term locker room talk. Yes. It says there's a certain thing that's acceptable in the world. And then there's this whole other thing that is okay because it's done in a locker room.

I mean, even the term locker room talk. Yes. It says there's a certain thing that's acceptable in the world. And then there's this whole other thing that is okay because it's done in a locker room.

I mean, even the term locker room talk. Yes. It says there's a certain thing that's acceptable in the world. And then there's this whole other thing that is okay because it's done in a locker room.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And isn't a precondition to all of that is your kid, because you can say that all you want, but if your kid knows my mom's world and identity is attached to me as an elite athlete and her entire community is built on that team and she will be devastated to lose this team, it doesn't matter what you say. They won't bring that to you because they know that it will be devastating to you.

And isn't a precondition to all of that is your kid, because you can say that all you want, but if your kid knows my mom's world and identity is attached to me as an elite athlete and her entire community is built on that team and she will be devastated to lose this team, it doesn't matter what you say. They won't bring that to you because they know that it will be devastating to you.

And isn't a precondition to all of that is your kid, because you can say that all you want, but if your kid knows my mom's world and identity is attached to me as an elite athlete and her entire community is built on that team and she will be devastated to lose this team, it doesn't matter what you say. They won't bring that to you because they know that it will be devastating to you.

You have a responsibility even before that to separate your existence and your identity and your sense of belonging in the world from your kid's sport. Yes. Because then when something happens, it's not catastrophic. It really can be theirs. We have this we thing going on. We play travel baseball. We are the team. No, you're not. You are actually not. It is your child's.

You have a responsibility even before that to separate your existence and your identity and your sense of belonging in the world from your kid's sport. Yes. Because then when something happens, it's not catastrophic. It really can be theirs. We have this we thing going on. We play travel baseball. We are the team. No, you're not. You are actually not. It is your child's.

You have a responsibility even before that to separate your existence and your identity and your sense of belonging in the world from your kid's sport. Yes. Because then when something happens, it's not catastrophic. It really can be theirs. We have this we thing going on. We play travel baseball. We are the team. No, you're not. You are actually not. It is your child's.

You need to like support them to the extent that they wish. And then you need to have your own ass life precisely because when things break bad, when they don't make the team, it is not a family leveling experience. It's just a team. Yeah.

You need to like support them to the extent that they wish. And then you need to have your own ass life precisely because when things break bad, when they don't make the team, it is not a family leveling experience. It's just a team. Yeah.

You need to like support them to the extent that they wish. And then you need to have your own ass life precisely because when things break bad, when they don't make the team, it is not a family leveling experience. It's just a team. Yeah.