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Amanda

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
9398 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

Because if I actually care when my kid doesn't perform well, then I need to be real intellectually honest with myself about, is that what I'm doing here? Is that what I actually care about? Or do I actually care that they're in here working it out for themselves and getting back up again, lifting up their teammates, like really distilling what you care about.

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

And then when you inevitably feel sad or disappointed or discouraged, or you can be like, oh, breathe through it. But good thing that's not what I actually care about. Because what I actually care about is this thing. And you can ground yourself there, but it gets really confusing in the moment if you don't actually know what you care about. That's really good.

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

And then when you inevitably feel sad or disappointed or discouraged, or you can be like, oh, breathe through it. But good thing that's not what I actually care about. Because what I actually care about is this thing. And you can ground yourself there, but it gets really confusing in the moment if you don't actually know what you care about. That's really good.

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

And then when you inevitably feel sad or disappointed or discouraged, or you can be like, oh, breathe through it. But good thing that's not what I actually care about. Because what I actually care about is this thing. And you can ground yourself there, but it gets really confusing in the moment if you don't actually know what you care about. That's really good.

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

And also not the only source of connection to you in your relationship with your kid, because then they might be thinking, I give up my sport. I give up my bond with my dad. I give up my sport. I give up my time with my mom. Like you need the multiple connection points with your kid too, because that's really confusing to them.

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

And also not the only source of connection to you in your relationship with your kid, because then they might be thinking, I give up my sport. I give up my bond with my dad. I give up my sport. I give up my time with my mom. Like you need the multiple connection points with your kid too, because that's really confusing to them.

We Can Do Hard Things
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan

And also not the only source of connection to you in your relationship with your kid, because then they might be thinking, I give up my sport. I give up my bond with my dad. I give up my sport. I give up my time with my mom. Like you need the multiple connection points with your kid too, because that's really confusing to them.

48 Hours
The Farris Wheel

She has told me that she's not guilty, and all I can do is believe that until somebody can prove she is guilty. So I would like to believe that my mother had nothing to do with this. There's just so much pain.

48 Hours
The Farris Wheel

She has told me that she's not guilty, and all I can do is believe that until somebody can prove she is guilty. So I would like to believe that my mother had nothing to do with this. There's just so much pain.

48 Hours
The Farris Wheel

She has told me that she's not guilty, and all I can do is believe that until somebody can prove she is guilty. So I would like to believe that my mother had nothing to do with this. There's just so much pain.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Oh, shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Oh, shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Oh, shit.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Yeah, just quick cue. What do you mean by the letters?

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Yeah, just quick cue. What do you mean by the letters?

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Yeah, just quick cue. What do you mean by the letters?

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Soccer costume.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Soccer costume.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Soccer costume.

We Can Do Hard Things
Jia Tolentino: The 1% of Life that Makes It All Worth It (Best Of)

Isn't that beauty and truth though too? It's like the opposite of poetry. Yeah, I know. But I think that like that's where...