Amy Andersen

So lean into that energetically, remembering the context and the environment in this situation. This is not a work meeting. This is not a boardroom meeting. You're not having a job interview. you know, for that dream job, right? Because people are going to read that energy immediately.

So lean into the situation and remember that these women are there to meet you and genuinely have agreed to meet you for the purposes of a date. So when you remember that, I think that is step one. That's really going to help. Number two is trust. be an interesting and an interested person, right? So again, kind of that theory of leaning into the date.

So lean into the situation and remember that these women are there to meet you and genuinely have agreed to meet you for the purposes of a date. So when you remember that, I think that is step one. That's really going to help. Number two is trust. be an interesting and an interested person, right? So again, kind of that theory of leaning into the date.

So lean into the situation and remember that these women are there to meet you and genuinely have agreed to meet you for the purposes of a date. So when you remember that, I think that is step one. That's really going to help. Number two is trust. be an interesting and an interested person, right? So again, kind of that theory of leaning into the date.

You are asking her questions about herself, trying to peel those kind of emotional layers back. And remember that emotions don't always follow logic. I think a lot of very analytical and logical guys really want to figure things out and find that chemistry. And sometimes...

You are asking her questions about herself, trying to peel those kind of emotional layers back. And remember that emotions don't always follow logic. I think a lot of very analytical and logical guys really want to figure things out and find that chemistry. And sometimes...

You are asking her questions about herself, trying to peel those kind of emotional layers back. And remember that emotions don't always follow logic. I think a lot of very analytical and logical guys really want to figure things out and find that chemistry. And sometimes...

force something right but it's really important to kind of peel those layers back and remember that there's a lot of you know importance of like nuances and feelings and trying to kind of tap into the emotion of things by being a little bit vulnerable and sharing about yourself I have one client I'm representing right now, and he goes out on a fair amount of dates.

force something right but it's really important to kind of peel those layers back and remember that there's a lot of you know importance of like nuances and feelings and trying to kind of tap into the emotion of things by being a little bit vulnerable and sharing about yourself I have one client I'm representing right now, and he goes out on a fair amount of dates.

force something right but it's really important to kind of peel those layers back and remember that there's a lot of you know importance of like nuances and feelings and trying to kind of tap into the emotion of things by being a little bit vulnerable and sharing about yourself I have one client I'm representing right now, and he goes out on a fair amount of dates.

And these are all really good dates on paper on both sides. But the feedback from these women is that, you know, Amy, he didn't ask me a lot of questions. Like, he seems like such a nice guy. And I should feel the chemistry and I should like him, but he's almost too robotic. Right. So I really encourage him to number one, work on himself.

And these are all really good dates on paper on both sides. But the feedback from these women is that, you know, Amy, he didn't ask me a lot of questions. Like, he seems like such a nice guy. And I should feel the chemistry and I should like him, but he's almost too robotic. Right. So I really encourage him to number one, work on himself.

And these are all really good dates on paper on both sides. But the feedback from these women is that, you know, Amy, he didn't ask me a lot of questions. Like, he seems like such a nice guy. And I should feel the chemistry and I should like him, but he's almost too robotic. Right. So I really encourage him to number one, work on himself.

Like I've encouraged him to, you know, maybe do a little, a little bit of therapy. So that can kind of help him tap into some of his emotions or hiring a date coach like yourself that can really kind of help him guide him through this, um, But I think remembering that the logical side and the emotional side are two totally separate things, right?

Like I've encouraged him to, you know, maybe do a little, a little bit of therapy. So that can kind of help him tap into some of his emotions or hiring a date coach like yourself that can really kind of help him guide him through this, um, But I think remembering that the logical side and the emotional side are two totally separate things, right?

Like I've encouraged him to, you know, maybe do a little, a little bit of therapy. So that can kind of help him tap into some of his emotions or hiring a date coach like yourself that can really kind of help him guide him through this, um, But I think remembering that the logical side and the emotional side are two totally separate things, right?

Be that interesting person in who you're going out with and interested in her and also showcasing some of your vulnerabilities and emotional side. And maybe that's how you will start to feel that connection and peeling back those layers.

Be that interesting person in who you're going out with and interested in her and also showcasing some of your vulnerabilities and emotional side. And maybe that's how you will start to feel that connection and peeling back those layers.

Be that interesting person in who you're going out with and interested in her and also showcasing some of your vulnerabilities and emotional side. And maybe that's how you will start to feel that connection and peeling back those layers.

Yes, exactly. And it takes practice, right? Again, practice makes perfect. It's a skill. So the more you can just put yourself out there and even practice, like I, my, my thing, what I tell everybody is walk up to strangers, just say hi and, in social situations and introduce yourself, like say hi and practice some of those skills of flirting. See how women respond to it, right?