Amy Chapman

So a couple different things. I swing a pendulum because I will coach somebody who is pretty boring and I'm going to make them wackadoo. They're going to be all over the top and everything's going to be so crazy. And I know that they're going to walk out and be like, that crazy lady told me to do too much shit.

And that pendulum's going to swing back right in the middle, right where they need to be. So I go way far on one side. Great. And I tell them that too. I'm like, listen, we're going psycho here and I want you to be free. Because also if somebody is – a lot of times people are a little bit flatter because they're a little embarrassed to go big. Shy. They're shy. They're embarrassed.

And that pendulum's going to swing back right in the middle, right where they need to be. So I go way far on one side. Great. And I tell them that too. I'm like, listen, we're going psycho here and I want you to be free. Because also if somebody is – a lot of times people are a little bit flatter because they're a little embarrassed to go big. Shy. They're shy. They're embarrassed.

And that pendulum's going to swing back right in the middle, right where they need to be. So I go way far on one side. Great. And I tell them that too. I'm like, listen, we're going psycho here and I want you to be free. Because also if somebody is – a lot of times people are a little bit flatter because they're a little embarrassed to go big. Shy. They're shy. They're embarrassed.

They're just kind of like – And there's nothing wrong with that. No, I know. Yeah. But if you're reserved, you're like, I don't want to do that. It feels weird. Feels weird. It feels weird to go big. And I'm like, feel weird. Feel weird. Don't feel shame. Don't feel embarrassed. Because if you're embarrassed, I promise you, your TED Talk's not going to do well.

They're just kind of like – And there's nothing wrong with that. No, I know. Yeah. But if you're reserved, you're like, I don't want to do that. It feels weird. Feels weird. It feels weird to go big. And I'm like, feel weird. Feel weird. Don't feel shame. Don't feel embarrassed. Because if you're embarrassed, I promise you, your TED Talk's not going to do well.

They're just kind of like – And there's nothing wrong with that. No, I know. Yeah. But if you're reserved, you're like, I don't want to do that. It feels weird. Feels weird. It feels weird to go big. And I'm like, feel weird. Feel weird. Don't feel shame. Don't feel embarrassed. Because if you're embarrassed, I promise you, your TED Talk's not going to do well.

If you're like, I sort of like don't want to be here. That comes across. And people are like, well, if you don't want to be here, I don't want to be watching you. Right? But if someone's like, oh my God, I want to be here so badly. I'm so stoked to be here. And you can see that you're like, yeah, I want to be here with you. I don't care what you're talking about.

If you're like, I sort of like don't want to be here. That comes across. And people are like, well, if you don't want to be here, I don't want to be watching you. Right? But if someone's like, oh my God, I want to be here so badly. I'm so stoked to be here. And you can see that you're like, yeah, I want to be here with you. I don't care what you're talking about.

If you're like, I sort of like don't want to be here. That comes across. And people are like, well, if you don't want to be here, I don't want to be watching you. Right? But if someone's like, oh my God, I want to be here so badly. I'm so stoked to be here. And you can see that you're like, yeah, I want to be here with you. I don't care what you're talking about.

You're talking about a toenail fungus. Sign me up. Like it's, so exciting because you're excited. Show me that excitement. And then take me on a journey. Show me that excitement. Show me big. So that's why when people are reserved, I'm like, go crazy. I have them jump around. I have them move about. I have them flail their arms up and really go wild. So then they don't feel that shame as much.

You're talking about a toenail fungus. Sign me up. Like it's, so exciting because you're excited. Show me that excitement. And then take me on a journey. Show me that excitement. Show me big. So that's why when people are reserved, I'm like, go crazy. I have them jump around. I have them move about. I have them flail their arms up and really go wild. So then they don't feel that shame as much.

You're talking about a toenail fungus. Sign me up. Like it's, so exciting because you're excited. Show me that excitement. And then take me on a journey. Show me that excitement. Show me big. So that's why when people are reserved, I'm like, go crazy. I have them jump around. I have them move about. I have them flail their arms up and really go wild. So then they don't feel that shame as much.

Get weird. Get completely weird. Be embarrassed. Get it out. And then you can find places where you're like, yes, here I am talking about toenail fungus on my TED Talk. And then I'm going to bring it back because I'm telling you a story. And if every story is at a 10 the whole time, it feels like you're yelling at me. But I have to have you bring it back.

Get weird. Get completely weird. Be embarrassed. Get it out. And then you can find places where you're like, yes, here I am talking about toenail fungus on my TED Talk. And then I'm going to bring it back because I'm telling you a story. And if every story is at a 10 the whole time, it feels like you're yelling at me. But I have to have you bring it back.

Get weird. Get completely weird. Be embarrassed. Get it out. And then you can find places where you're like, yes, here I am talking about toenail fungus on my TED Talk. And then I'm going to bring it back because I'm telling you a story. And if every story is at a 10 the whole time, it feels like you're yelling at me. But I have to have you bring it back.

And there's got to be parts where you bring it in. And like I said before, when I'm quiet, you lean in. So then I go big. And I go big where it matters. And then I pull you in. And I'm like, now you come into me because I'm going to bring it here. And then we're going to be someplace else in the middle. So give me a range of emotion. Give me a range of things to be excited about.

And there's got to be parts where you bring it in. And like I said before, when I'm quiet, you lean in. So then I go big. And I go big where it matters. And then I pull you in. And I'm like, now you come into me because I'm going to bring it here. And then we're going to be someplace else in the middle. So give me a range of emotion. Give me a range of things to be excited about.

And there's got to be parts where you bring it in. And like I said before, when I'm quiet, you lean in. So then I go big. And I go big where it matters. And then I pull you in. And I'm like, now you come into me because I'm going to bring it here. And then we're going to be someplace else in the middle. So give me a range of emotion. Give me a range of things to be excited about.

When I see a movie and it's one character and he's the same exact throughout, you're like, you're so boring. But a good movie and a good character, you see an arc. You see them start somewhere else and end somewhere else.