André Duqum

And I'm just curious what you think about that because yeah, niceness can often be that behavioral compensation. Yeah. For various fears, you know?

I was driving with a friend a while back and... I think this is quite common with Canadians, actually. Canadians are very nice. Not to over-pathologize, and I think there is just a cultural component for sure. But he is a very genuinely kind spirit. But I saw his tendency to always filter his truth and authenticity with just the cover of niceness.

I was driving with a friend a while back and... I think this is quite common with Canadians, actually. Canadians are very nice. Not to over-pathologize, and I think there is just a cultural component for sure. But he is a very genuinely kind spirit. But I saw his tendency to always filter his truth and authenticity with just the cover of niceness.

I was driving with a friend a while back and... I think this is quite common with Canadians, actually. Canadians are very nice. Not to over-pathologize, and I think there is just a cultural component for sure. But he is a very genuinely kind spirit. But I saw his tendency to always filter his truth and authenticity with just the cover of niceness.

Yeah. Yeah, I'm sure. And It's just, it's just, we crave authenticity and there is a barrier there between authenticity.

Yeah. Yeah, I'm sure. And It's just, it's just, we crave authenticity and there is a barrier there between authenticity.

Yeah. Yeah, I'm sure. And It's just, it's just, we crave authenticity and there is a barrier there between authenticity.

And I love even more so the individuals who are maybe a bit more crass and, you know, straight to the point, you know, than, yeah, than the ones that need to kind of coat things because it almost, it almost robs you of the respect that you deserve and dynamics and communication to be truthful. Yeah.

And I love even more so the individuals who are maybe a bit more crass and, you know, straight to the point, you know, than, yeah, than the ones that need to kind of coat things because it almost, it almost robs you of the respect that you deserve and dynamics and communication to be truthful. Yeah.

And I love even more so the individuals who are maybe a bit more crass and, you know, straight to the point, you know, than, yeah, than the ones that need to kind of coat things because it almost, it almost robs you of the respect that you deserve and dynamics and communication to be truthful. Yeah.

Yeah. Trust is a big thing in dynamics.

Yeah. Trust is a big thing in dynamics.

Yeah. Trust is a big thing in dynamics.

Where I want to take it first is actually how important and pivotal do you think the trust we have ourselves and with life informs the trust we have with another partner? Because we could be in a relationship where we feel very uncertain or not sure if there's going to be a longevity in the connection or if they might leave us or whatever.

Where I want to take it first is actually how important and pivotal do you think the trust we have ourselves and with life informs the trust we have with another partner? Because we could be in a relationship where we feel very uncertain or not sure if there's going to be a longevity in the connection or if they might leave us or whatever.

Where I want to take it first is actually how important and pivotal do you think the trust we have ourselves and with life informs the trust we have with another partner? Because we could be in a relationship where we feel very uncertain or not sure if there's going to be a longevity in the connection or if they might leave us or whatever.

And I find if somebody has a deeper trust of life's intelligence with a capital I, that that things will ultimately work out and that actually life is inherently uncertain.

And I find if somebody has a deeper trust of life's intelligence with a capital I, that that things will ultimately work out and that actually life is inherently uncertain.

And I find if somebody has a deeper trust of life's intelligence with a capital I, that that things will ultimately work out and that actually life is inherently uncertain.

It breeds some spaciousness, which reduces the clinging, which often actually pushes away.