André Duqum

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You've shared with me that story in the past. And to me, it's such an important reminder of what... is love and the mirrors that relationships serve in our life and how we're constantly bringing in our past history with us into every dynamic.

You've shared with me that story in the past. And to me, it's such an important reminder of what... is love and the mirrors that relationships serve in our life and how we're constantly bringing in our past history with us into every dynamic.

You've shared with me that story in the past. And to me, it's such an important reminder of what... is love and the mirrors that relationships serve in our life and how we're constantly bringing in our past history with us into every dynamic.

And actually, painfully, the realization is that we're relating to people through our own perspective of them and who we want them to be and not actually them. Now, looking back on that, what does that reveal to you about what it means to actually relate to people from a true place of love without attachment of who we need them to be for us?

And actually, painfully, the realization is that we're relating to people through our own perspective of them and who we want them to be and not actually them. Now, looking back on that, what does that reveal to you about what it means to actually relate to people from a true place of love without attachment of who we need them to be for us?

And actually, painfully, the realization is that we're relating to people through our own perspective of them and who we want them to be and not actually them. Now, looking back on that, what does that reveal to you about what it means to actually relate to people from a true place of love without attachment of who we need them to be for us?

Yeah, I remember actually calling you up in my last relationship because I had one of these examples where I was seeing her through the, you could even say in a good way, the potential of who she could be or behaviors that I know that would benefit her and loving the version of her that would uphold that and being disappointed when she would fall short of that.

Yeah, I remember actually calling you up in my last relationship because I had one of these examples where I was seeing her through the, you could even say in a good way, the potential of who she could be or behaviors that I know that would benefit her and loving the version of her that would uphold that and being disappointed when she would fall short of that.

Yeah, I remember actually calling you up in my last relationship because I had one of these examples where I was seeing her through the, you could even say in a good way, the potential of who she could be or behaviors that I know that would benefit her and loving the version of her that would uphold that and being disappointed when she would fall short of that.

failing to recognize that I'm literally not relating with her in that way, you know? And it's a painful thing to realize in the moment. But again, the... to the degree there's a shadow, holds the other side of the light too. So the freedom that's experienced and the true love and depth of intimacy that it reveals on the other side of that is an amazing gift.

failing to recognize that I'm literally not relating with her in that way, you know? And it's a painful thing to realize in the moment. But again, the... to the degree there's a shadow, holds the other side of the light too. So the freedom that's experienced and the true love and depth of intimacy that it reveals on the other side of that is an amazing gift.

failing to recognize that I'm literally not relating with her in that way, you know? And it's a painful thing to realize in the moment. But again, the... to the degree there's a shadow, holds the other side of the light too. So the freedom that's experienced and the true love and depth of intimacy that it reveals on the other side of that is an amazing gift.

So it's painful to go through in the moment. It's the hell through that we get to heaven, like you said.

So it's painful to go through in the moment. It's the hell through that we get to heaven, like you said.

So it's painful to go through in the moment. It's the hell through that we get to heaven, like you said.

And there's something inherently like a candle in a dark room that illuminates wherever it goes. A presence of love. Somebody who has realized themselves as that nature, where they become an invitation for everybody around them to feel seen, heard, and held. And I just find it so amazing that in the embodiment of that, you become a walking invitation to that energy.

And there's something inherently like a candle in a dark room that illuminates wherever it goes. A presence of love. Somebody who has realized themselves as that nature, where they become an invitation for everybody around them to feel seen, heard, and held. And I just find it so amazing that in the embodiment of that, you become a walking invitation to that energy.

And there's something inherently like a candle in a dark room that illuminates wherever it goes. A presence of love. Somebody who has realized themselves as that nature, where they become an invitation for everybody around them to feel seen, heard, and held. And I just find it so amazing that in the embodiment of that, you become a walking invitation to that energy.