Andrew Zimmern

The I don't know.

because I struggle.

I mean, I had a friend text me the other day who told me that I had gotten lousy responding to texts fast enough.

And he wasn't talking about it immediately.

He said like, you know,

you know, I'm one of your two or three best friends.

What's the, you know, within a day you get back to me, I'm asking you about important stuff about your kid, your relationship, you know, whatever it is.

I mean, and I didn't.

And I know that my son needs more time from his father.

And I know that in my primary relationships, be they at work or at home, need more time from me.

but I'm a mile long and a quarter inch deep.

And I want to get, I was, I use a football metaphor here.

I no longer want to have a spread offense and be a wide receiver all the way at the end.

I'd rather be an interior lineman at this point.

I need to, I need to be an inch deep and a quarter mile long.

And I,

So that's my goal.

How I get there is with legitimate action steps.

I think, and it's never one thing.

I had a behavioral scientist who I was talking to at a conference about 15 years ago say something that I've never forgotten.