André Duqum

Yeah, I remember actually calling you up in my last relationship because I had one of these examples where I was seeing her through the, you could even say in a good way, the potential of who she could be or behaviors that I know that would benefit her and loving the version of her that would uphold that and being disappointed when she would fall short of that.

Yeah, I remember actually calling you up in my last relationship because I had one of these examples where I was seeing her through the, you could even say in a good way, the potential of who she could be or behaviors that I know that would benefit her and loving the version of her that would uphold that and being disappointed when she would fall short of that.

Yeah, I remember actually calling you up in my last relationship because I had one of these examples where I was seeing her through the, you could even say in a good way, the potential of who she could be or behaviors that I know that would benefit her and loving the version of her that would uphold that and being disappointed when she would fall short of that.

failing to recognize that I'm literally not relating with her in that way, you know? And it's a painful thing to realize in the moment. But again, the... to the degree there's a shadow, holds the other side of the light too. So the freedom that's experienced and the true love and depth of intimacy that it reveals on the other side of that is an amazing gift.

failing to recognize that I'm literally not relating with her in that way, you know? And it's a painful thing to realize in the moment. But again, the... to the degree there's a shadow, holds the other side of the light too. So the freedom that's experienced and the true love and depth of intimacy that it reveals on the other side of that is an amazing gift.

failing to recognize that I'm literally not relating with her in that way, you know? And it's a painful thing to realize in the moment. But again, the... to the degree there's a shadow, holds the other side of the light too. So the freedom that's experienced and the true love and depth of intimacy that it reveals on the other side of that is an amazing gift.

So it's painful to go through in the moment. It's the hell through that we get to heaven, like you said.

So it's painful to go through in the moment. It's the hell through that we get to heaven, like you said.

So it's painful to go through in the moment. It's the hell through that we get to heaven, like you said.

And there's something inherently like a candle in a dark room that illuminates wherever it goes. A presence of love. Somebody who has realized themselves as that nature, where they become an invitation for everybody around them to feel seen, heard, and held. And I just find it so amazing that in the embodiment of that, you become a walking invitation to that energy.

And there's something inherently like a candle in a dark room that illuminates wherever it goes. A presence of love. Somebody who has realized themselves as that nature, where they become an invitation for everybody around them to feel seen, heard, and held. And I just find it so amazing that in the embodiment of that, you become a walking invitation to that energy.

And there's something inherently like a candle in a dark room that illuminates wherever it goes. A presence of love. Somebody who has realized themselves as that nature, where they become an invitation for everybody around them to feel seen, heard, and held. And I just find it so amazing that in the embodiment of that, you become a walking invitation to that energy.

And it's wild what unravels in front of that presence that is you. Because you are that safe space for people to know that you genuinely are there for somebody and you're actually there connecting with them and not through your own prism.

And it's wild what unravels in front of that presence that is you. Because you are that safe space for people to know that you genuinely are there for somebody and you're actually there connecting with them and not through your own prism.

And it's wild what unravels in front of that presence that is you. Because you are that safe space for people to know that you genuinely are there for somebody and you're actually there connecting with them and not through your own prism.

There's even a deeper illusion, which is that it's ours to grant somebody that allowance, right? Absolutely.

There's even a deeper illusion, which is that it's ours to grant somebody that allowance, right? Absolutely.

There's even a deeper illusion, which is that it's ours to grant somebody that allowance, right? Absolutely.

Yeah, there's that saying, you know, one mouth, two ears, use them proportionately.

Yeah, there's that saying, you know, one mouth, two ears, use them proportionately.