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André Duqum

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Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

I love how you brought it back to the discomfort is the motivating force that puts us in a direction where it's like, it's like unconsciousness.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

You know, I think of life as like time and energy because a certain amount of time and energy and what we're doing with our attention at any given moment is what we're doing with that time and energy.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

And for me, it's like a really painful realization when you think that you might be living your life unconsciously, not in the way that you intend to, you know?

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Yeah, and just an important highlight there from what you said is like to be distracted, you have to know what you're being distracted from.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Yes, exactly.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

And so I'd love for you to elaborate a bit on that because unless you have a plan, unless you know what it is you actually value and want, then you're just swimming in a sea of pleasure seeking.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

You don't have really a North Star in which you don't want to be distracted from.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

No, it's such a good reminder.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

I wonder how many people listening have lived life, lived a single day completely intentionally consciously.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

It sounds like, I mean, I think it'd be very hard to at least at not one point in the day get pulled into, you know, some sort of a distraction.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

But was there a moment when you really realized that there was a lot of potential on offer for you that you were not accessing because of how distracted you were?

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Absolutely.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Yeah.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Yeah.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

And you refer to how like a lot of us know those kind of big overarching goals.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Not all of us, but many of us are kind of know what we essentially want from life.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

But we suck at reverse engineering and actually making a plan for it that we can actually stick to and follow through on.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Any other thoughts or advice there?

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

I mean, in terms of time blocking, that's that you already mentioned.

Know Thyself
E183 - Nir Eyal: How Your Beliefs Shape What You See (And Hold You Back)

Yeah.