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Andy Frisella

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
67584 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And also, if we're being real, you know, there's a saying, you know, great leaders give the credit and take responsibility.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

So, you know, for me, and this is very real, this is not just hypothetical for me.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I run organizations that are very big.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I'm not the one waiting on the customer anymore.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I'm not the one fucking going out and doing the promos anymore.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I'm not the one formulating the products.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I'm not the one.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

So when people say, oh, congratulations, it is a real thing for me to say, well, no, I'm surrounded by great people.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

You know what I mean?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And which, you know, that's what that, you know, I wouldn't say I'm a great leader, but I've done some things and I feel like I have a long way to go.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I think most people were sitting in my space.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

I'm a fucking great leader.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

But the reality is, is like,

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

know it's a lifelong process so how can you say you're great at it you know what i mean so i don't actually think that that that's a real problem dude i think that's a really good thing i think that it's important to acknowledge what you did right but you're not going to attach your emotions to it right like when you did a good job you could acknowledge it it's okay to say yeah okay i did good but like reality is is that you know

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

what i learned there how did i do good what actions did i take it's not you it's the result of the actions and we remove ourselves from the ego attachment of the process and realize that our outcomes are determined by our actions there's no reason or way that you could you could also believe that it's you

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

Does that make sense?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

Absolutely.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

So it's the process.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

It's the actions.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
977. Q&AF: Handling Doubt After Failure, Fighting Complacency & Accepting Praise

And that's actually the true definition of humility because you understand that if someone else had taken the same actions that you took, they could produce the same outcome.