Andy Stumpf

What I can tell you as you get older and you have kids, it hurts a lot more when you wake up the next day and your kids are still there and they don't actually care if you went to the bar and had a good time with your bachelor friends. They still want you to show up as dad. So you have to start making choices again, because the number of people that you are responsible for

What I can tell you as you get older and you have kids, it hurts a lot more when you wake up the next day and your kids are still there and they don't actually care if you went to the bar and had a good time with your bachelor friends. They still want you to show up as dad. So you have to start making choices again, because the number of people that you are responsible for

And responsible two is now greater than one. It just is what it is. So I would expect a little bit of a drift in that area because if you're going to use an iceberg analogy, you might have carved off from the same one, but you're just on a different trajectory. And that is the way that it is. It's not good or bad.

And responsible two is now greater than one. It just is what it is. So I would expect a little bit of a drift in that area because if you're going to use an iceberg analogy, you might have carved off from the same one, but you're just on a different trajectory. And that is the way that it is. It's not good or bad.

And responsible two is now greater than one. It just is what it is. So I would expect a little bit of a drift in that area because if you're going to use an iceberg analogy, you might have carved off from the same one, but you're just on a different trajectory. And that is the way that it is. It's not good or bad.

It's just different life choices that is going to lead you in different directions in your life. Well, I got rid of that question. Here we go. I do have some friends from my time in the National Guard, but we are all slowly losing touch. Our conversations always revolve around the job, and I don't feel like I'm able to connect with them on a deeper level.

It's just different life choices that is going to lead you in different directions in your life. Well, I got rid of that question. Here we go. I do have some friends from my time in the National Guard, but we are all slowly losing touch. Our conversations always revolve around the job, and I don't feel like I'm able to connect with them on a deeper level.

It's just different life choices that is going to lead you in different directions in your life. Well, I got rid of that question. Here we go. I do have some friends from my time in the National Guard, but we are all slowly losing touch. Our conversations always revolve around the job, and I don't feel like I'm able to connect with them on a deeper level.

More than anything, I just want a strong core group of friends who I can trust and rely on and for them to know that they can trust and rely on me. Sounds equitable. The kind of friend you could call at 4 a.m. in the morning and you could trust that they'd turn up for you. I'm feeling guilty bitching about this as I have a great family life.

More than anything, I just want a strong core group of friends who I can trust and rely on and for them to know that they can trust and rely on me. Sounds equitable. The kind of friend you could call at 4 a.m. in the morning and you could trust that they'd turn up for you. I'm feeling guilty bitching about this as I have a great family life.

More than anything, I just want a strong core group of friends who I can trust and rely on and for them to know that they can trust and rely on me. Sounds equitable. The kind of friend you could call at 4 a.m. in the morning and you could trust that they'd turn up for you. I'm feeling guilty bitching about this as I have a great family life.

That said, it feels like there's a hole missing in my life that should be filled with good, reliable friends. With that said, I am completely directionless on how to make friends in my 40s while working a remote IT job with no work colleagues to speak of. I'm reaching out to you because I value your perspective.

That said, it feels like there's a hole missing in my life that should be filled with good, reliable friends. With that said, I am completely directionless on how to make friends in my 40s while working a remote IT job with no work colleagues to speak of. I'm reaching out to you because I value your perspective.

That said, it feels like there's a hole missing in my life that should be filled with good, reliable friends. With that said, I am completely directionless on how to make friends in my 40s while working a remote IT job with no work colleagues to speak of. I'm reaching out to you because I value your perspective.

Have you ever experienced this problem when getting out of the Navy and trying to make new friends in middle age? Excuse me, sir. I am not middle-aged. I am still young in life now.

Have you ever experienced this problem when getting out of the Navy and trying to make new friends in middle age? Excuse me, sir. I am not middle-aged. I am still young in life now.

Have you ever experienced this problem when getting out of the Navy and trying to make new friends in middle age? Excuse me, sir. I am not middle-aged. I am still young in life now.

chipper young man middle age is 60 until I get to be 60 and then I'm going to say it's 80 any advice you can give on where I could start would be appreciated I do have some advice on this one and I'm not going to say I've ever been somebody who's had a large friend circle or social circle but I do care very deeply about the friends that are in my life and okay let me think here for a second

chipper young man middle age is 60 until I get to be 60 and then I'm going to say it's 80 any advice you can give on where I could start would be appreciated I do have some advice on this one and I'm not going to say I've ever been somebody who's had a large friend circle or social circle but I do care very deeply about the friends that are in my life and okay let me think here for a second

chipper young man middle age is 60 until I get to be 60 and then I'm going to say it's 80 any advice you can give on where I could start would be appreciated I do have some advice on this one and I'm not going to say I've ever been somebody who's had a large friend circle or social circle but I do care very deeply about the friends that are in my life and okay let me think here for a second