Andy Stumpf

You are training in a compromising environment where you can get hurt. You have to be a good training partner and you have to be cognizant of other people because you can hurt them if you go too hard and they can hurt you if you go too hard or are unwilling to tap or submit. So there's a level of trust inside of that. And through that, I met a bunch of members of the law enforcement community.

I met my wife, Leah. I've been able to travel internationally now at this point doing jiu-jitsu related activities. I've been continuing to meet other people. Not all of them are incredibly tight in my social circle. But for most of the people that are close to me in my life now, thinking about it, the pin in the ground that connects a lot of us is actually jiu-jitsu.

I met my wife, Leah. I've been able to travel internationally now at this point doing jiu-jitsu related activities. I've been continuing to meet other people. Not all of them are incredibly tight in my social circle. But for most of the people that are close to me in my life now, thinking about it, the pin in the ground that connects a lot of us is actually jiu-jitsu.

I met my wife, Leah. I've been able to travel internationally now at this point doing jiu-jitsu related activities. I've been continuing to meet other people. Not all of them are incredibly tight in my social circle. But for most of the people that are close to me in my life now, thinking about it, the pin in the ground that connects a lot of us is actually jiu-jitsu.

And we'll spend an hour or two a day when we're together doing that. And then we're off doing other stuff, whether it's in Costa Rica, hanging out, talking about life, talking about business, talking about every aspect of humanity, traveling the world, doing again an hour or two or jujitsu day, and then going out and seeing the rest of the world. My biggest suggestion for you

And we'll spend an hour or two a day when we're together doing that. And then we're off doing other stuff, whether it's in Costa Rica, hanging out, talking about life, talking about business, talking about every aspect of humanity, traveling the world, doing again an hour or two or jujitsu day, and then going out and seeing the rest of the world. My biggest suggestion for you

And we'll spend an hour or two a day when we're together doing that. And then we're off doing other stuff, whether it's in Costa Rica, hanging out, talking about life, talking about business, talking about every aspect of humanity, traveling the world, doing again an hour or two or jujitsu day, and then going out and seeing the rest of the world. My biggest suggestion for you

is instead of lamenting about the place that your relationship is at with your old social circle or the people that you were growing in life with and then have had this difference in trajectory, I would say go find physical activities. It's going to be helpful for you at the age of 42 anyway, mentally and physiologically. It doesn't have to be jujitsu.

is instead of lamenting about the place that your relationship is at with your old social circle or the people that you were growing in life with and then have had this difference in trajectory, I would say go find physical activities. It's going to be helpful for you at the age of 42 anyway, mentally and physiologically. It doesn't have to be jujitsu.

is instead of lamenting about the place that your relationship is at with your old social circle or the people that you were growing in life with and then have had this difference in trajectory, I would say go find physical activities. It's going to be helpful for you at the age of 42 anyway, mentally and physiologically. It doesn't have to be jujitsu.

If you want to go do that, cool, but hey, or do judo or do Muay Thai or go do boxing, whatever. Go do whatever you want to do. Climbing. Go find an indoor climbing gym. I guarantee you're going to meet some people there that will have overlay outside of that. Find a sport that potentially that you would want to play. Be careful at the age of 42.

If you want to go do that, cool, but hey, or do judo or do Muay Thai or go do boxing, whatever. Go do whatever you want to do. Climbing. Go find an indoor climbing gym. I guarantee you're going to meet some people there that will have overlay outside of that. Find a sport that potentially that you would want to play. Be careful at the age of 42.

If you want to go do that, cool, but hey, or do judo or do Muay Thai or go do boxing, whatever. Go do whatever you want to do. Climbing. Go find an indoor climbing gym. I guarantee you're going to meet some people there that will have overlay outside of that. Find a sport that potentially that you would want to play. Be careful at the age of 42.

You're a little bit more brittle in the glass man than you used to be. Maybe it's golf. Maybe it's pick a ball. I don't know. And I don't have to know. But my advice is seek physical outlets that will be rewarding to you regardless of whether or not you develop a social circle. And just keep looking around for things that you're interested in.

You're a little bit more brittle in the glass man than you used to be. Maybe it's golf. Maybe it's pick a ball. I don't know. And I don't have to know. But my advice is seek physical outlets that will be rewarding to you regardless of whether or not you develop a social circle. And just keep looking around for things that you're interested in.

You're a little bit more brittle in the glass man than you used to be. Maybe it's golf. Maybe it's pick a ball. I don't know. And I don't have to know. But my advice is seek physical outlets that will be rewarding to you regardless of whether or not you develop a social circle. And just keep looking around for things that you're interested in.

And I'm telling you right now, what will happen is you're going to meet cool people that share an interest in that one thing. which will probably lead to conversations about other things in their life where you might find shared interest and connection, and you will be able to rebuild your social circle. I wouldn't base it off of numbers.

And I'm telling you right now, what will happen is you're going to meet cool people that share an interest in that one thing. which will probably lead to conversations about other things in their life where you might find shared interest and connection, and you will be able to rebuild your social circle. I wouldn't base it off of numbers.

And I'm telling you right now, what will happen is you're going to meet cool people that share an interest in that one thing. which will probably lead to conversations about other things in their life where you might find shared interest and connection, and you will be able to rebuild your social circle. I wouldn't base it off of numbers.

At this point in my life, I don't care how many friends I have. I care how high quality my friendships are. I'm not looking to push people away from me, but I pay a lot of attention to how people act, how people speak, how people treat me, And I hope that they are doing the same to me as well. Anything that I just said, I put myself into that same level of scrutiny.