Angela Meyer

Just to throw that in there.

But it's true, you know, if we're not talking about it, then we're not educating each other.

We're not, yeah, we're not talking about, so, you know, how's your stock portfolio going today?

You know, as women, we don't tend to do that.

Whereas men are much more likely to feel much more confident talking about money.

I was really surprised when we started doing the Zooms because I don't have a problem spending money.

And we heard quite a lot of women were like, I find it really, really hard to spend money.

And I was like, oh, that's really interesting.

And just sort of understanding that different people's, the way that their beliefs and their money stories influence the way in which they interact with money was really fascinating to me.

And also just, as we say, once you get clear about it, then you have a choice about whether you want to continue that behaviour or whether you want to reframe the belief.

Yeah.

And I think one of the messages that we put in the book is actually when love and money meet, there's another thing in there, which is relationship property.

Yeah.

And we really want to encourage women to understand that, you know, for example, your inheritance is your own.

As soon as you put that into the mortgage, then that becomes relationship property.

And to your point, the most important thing is to be able to talk to each other about it and have a conversation about, you know, what are your beliefs about money?

It's almost doing the same process, but together as a couple can be really beneficial.

First date?

I do know people who have actually.

I mean, I think.