Anna Kai

61 years. OK.

Right. I, you know, I've been with my husband for six years now. We don't do anything that is quote unquote Instagrammable, but I know he's there. I'm there. We show up for each other in the ways that matter and maybe not necessarily ways that look cute in social media.

Right. I, you know, I've been with my husband for six years now. We don't do anything that is quote unquote Instagrammable, but I know he's there. I'm there. We show up for each other in the ways that matter and maybe not necessarily ways that look cute in social media.

Right. I, you know, I've been with my husband for six years now. We don't do anything that is quote unquote Instagrammable, but I know he's there. I'm there. We show up for each other in the ways that matter and maybe not necessarily ways that look cute in social media.

But again, these are things that if you're focusing on that, that's how I feel about when people get really their panties in a twist about like, it's easy.

But again, these are things that if you're focusing on that, that's how I feel about when people get really their panties in a twist about like, it's easy.

But again, these are things that if you're focusing on that, that's how I feel about when people get really their panties in a twist about like, it's easy.

not posting me on his instagram it's like it's not actually about the little thing that you care about it's about the fact that at the crux of your relationship you do not feel that he cares about you so you're trying to you know grasp onto these little things to say well if he only did this then i would feel loved okay but then he would do that and it's like well i don't because he can yeah so yeah it's about the fact that you don't feel secure in a relationship

not posting me on his instagram it's like it's not actually about the little thing that you care about it's about the fact that at the crux of your relationship you do not feel that he cares about you so you're trying to you know grasp onto these little things to say well if he only did this then i would feel loved okay but then he would do that and it's like well i don't because he can yeah so yeah it's about the fact that you don't feel secure in a relationship

not posting me on his instagram it's like it's not actually about the little thing that you care about it's about the fact that at the crux of your relationship you do not feel that he cares about you so you're trying to you know grasp onto these little things to say well if he only did this then i would feel loved okay but then he would do that and it's like well i don't because he can yeah so yeah it's about the fact that you don't feel secure in a relationship

Well, here's my caveat to that is I agree, you know, figure out how to feel secure in a relationship. And I up until the point where you said he takes a day to respond. I was like, you know, my husband's not he takes a day to respond. You are out of sight, out of mind. That's what I would say.

Well, here's my caveat to that is I agree, you know, figure out how to feel secure in a relationship. And I up until the point where you said he takes a day to respond. I was like, you know, my husband's not he takes a day to respond. You are out of sight, out of mind. That's what I would say.

Well, here's my caveat to that is I agree, you know, figure out how to feel secure in a relationship. And I up until the point where you said he takes a day to respond. I was like, you know, my husband's not he takes a day to respond. You are out of sight, out of mind. That's what I would say.

You don't ever, no, no one needs a day to respond. Unless he's an ER surgeon, you know, and he's, you know.

You don't ever, no, no one needs a day to respond. Unless he's an ER surgeon, you know, and he's, you know.

You don't ever, no, no one needs a day to respond. Unless he's an ER surgeon, you know, and he's, you know.

Unless he's like, you know, in the secret, whatever, doesn't have access to a phone. If he's taking a day to respond, he doesn't care about you that much. My husband hates texting. does not like it as a form of communication, didn't text me all day every day from the first time we met, but he never made me wait that long. There was never a game.

Unless he's like, you know, in the secret, whatever, doesn't have access to a phone. If he's taking a day to respond, he doesn't care about you that much. My husband hates texting. does not like it as a form of communication, didn't text me all day every day from the first time we met, but he never made me wait that long. There was never a game.

Unless he's like, you know, in the secret, whatever, doesn't have access to a phone. If he's taking a day to respond, he doesn't care about you that much. My husband hates texting. does not like it as a form of communication, didn't text me all day every day from the first time we met, but he never made me wait that long. There was never a game.

He always made sure I felt that I knew he was interested. So if you are feeling this, that's your intuition saying this guy's not that into you. You've been on five dates. You can. Here's would be my advice to her is that I would bring it up with him once. Say, look, I love being with you and it's great, but I don't like that you take so long to respond.