Anna

So my question is, I am seeking advice on how to stay afloat after a divorce and my ex-husband is not paying child support.

Well, so I was married for 20 years.

Well, so I was married for 20 years.

Well, so I was married for 20 years.

Okay, well, he uses it to control me. It was an abusive marriage and... Um, I've been out for five years. And so for that five years, I mean, it's been, it's been a tool that he has hung on to that he can control me with.

Okay, well, he uses it to control me. It was an abusive marriage and... Um, I've been out for five years. And so for that five years, I mean, it's been, it's been a tool that he has hung on to that he can control me with.

Okay, well, he uses it to control me. It was an abusive marriage and... Um, I've been out for five years. And so for that five years, I mean, it's been, it's been a tool that he has hung on to that he can control me with.

Um, it's hard to even tell. And I've done, I've gone that whole route with EHR. They, you know, they, they don't actually go and get him, you know, there's a worn out or whatever. So, um, I guess I don't want to go down that too far because I want to know what can I do to stay afloat and support myself. I'm tired of being controlled.

Um, it's hard to even tell. And I've done, I've gone that whole route with EHR. They, you know, they, they don't actually go and get him, you know, there's a worn out or whatever. So, um, I guess I don't want to go down that too far because I want to know what can I do to stay afloat and support myself. I'm tired of being controlled.

Um, it's hard to even tell. And I've done, I've gone that whole route with EHR. They, you know, they, they don't actually go and get him, you know, there's a worn out or whatever. So, um, I guess I don't want to go down that too far because I want to know what can I do to stay afloat and support myself. I'm tired of being controlled.

Exactly.

Exactly.

Exactly.

So my income is $50,000. I was a stay-at-home mom, so just started working at the end of the marriage, which was like five years ago. So I do own my home. Well, I have a mortgage on my home. And I have credit card debt because I've lived off of credit cards when he didn't pay.

So my income is $50,000. I was a stay-at-home mom, so just started working at the end of the marriage, which was like five years ago. So I do own my home. Well, I have a mortgage on my home. And I have credit card debt because I've lived off of credit cards when he didn't pay.

So my income is $50,000. I was a stay-at-home mom, so just started working at the end of the marriage, which was like five years ago. So I do own my home. Well, I have a mortgage on my home. And I have credit card debt because I've lived off of credit cards when he didn't pay.

So $30,000, I have a year ago, I closed all of the accounts and negotiated the interest rates down to zero or three or 4%. So I have been paying them off and not spending any more on credit cards.

So $30,000, I have a year ago, I closed all of the accounts and negotiated the interest rates down to zero or three or 4%. So I have been paying them off and not spending any more on credit cards.

So $30,000, I have a year ago, I closed all of the accounts and negotiated the interest rates down to zero or three or 4%. So I have been paying them off and not spending any more on credit cards.

So progress, but... The child support has stopped again recently.