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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
Like it was bad.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And I thought at the time, like, this is such bad luck.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
Like this has really derailed my life.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
I'm experiencing very bad luck.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And I was very sad about it.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
Then, you know, now I have to take time off from graduate school and I have to delay going out on the job market.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And during that time was when I started playing poker and poker was pretty good to me.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And I would actually argue that had I not done what I did in poker, I wouldn't have the platform to talk about this thing that I'm so passionate about, which is like, how do we become better decision makers, right?
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And this amazing conversation I'm having with you about luck, which is so fun.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And I wouldn't be able to do that had I not gotten sick in the first place.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
So I now look back at that and say, whoa, that was kind of a rush to judgment at the time, right?
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
I really thought that I was experiencing bad luck, but it turns out that was actually kind of good luck.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
Because where my life ended up, I think, on average, it ended up in a better place because that thing happened to me.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And so I think that what you said is actually incredibly insightful, is that we ought to be
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
pretty neutral about luck.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
Like luck is occurring, but that rush to judgment about is that good luck or bad luck, I think, is misguided.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
And not only is it misguided and oughtn't we wait to actually sort of take a look back and make the judgment about whether it was good or bad, as you said, but when we judge it so quickly, I think that it can distort decisions that we're making going forward, particularly on the bad luck side.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
Because when we experience that bad luck, we get emotional.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
It's very difficult for us.
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BobbyCast #594 - Bobby & Eddie on Luckiest Moments in Music History & Annie Duke On Luck & Quitting
It actually reduces the quality of our decisions going forward if we really live in the idea.