Ariana Throne

That's a lot of pressure for any one person.

That's a lot of pressure for any one person.

So communication is one of those buzzwords, right?

So communication is one of those buzzwords, right?

Everyone comes into therapy for communication.

Everyone comes into therapy for communication.

There's usually a dynamic.

There's usually a dynamic.

There's a dance that people are doing and it's stuck.

There's a dance that people are doing and it's stuck.

They're repeating the same patterns over and over and over.

They're repeating the same patterns over and over and over.

And communication is a big part of that.

And communication is a big part of that.

But I think people get lost in that and don't necessarily see the attachment wounds that might be at play.

But I think people get lost in that and don't necessarily see the attachment wounds that might be at play.

their childhoods that they're bringing into the relationship, the expectations they have of the relationship that they've just never really talked about because we expect things to just be, oh, what I think is what everyone else thinks.

their childhoods that they're bringing into the relationship, the expectations they have of the relationship that they've just never really talked about because we expect things to just be, oh, what I think is what everyone else thinks.

Well, no, there's so many ways to do relationship and we come into it with different definitions of even words.

Well, no, there's so many ways to do relationship and we come into it with different definitions of even words.