Ariana Throne

So you're changing and then you're asking, hey, is this okay to try on or would you like to do this or that?

Yeah.

yeah yeah that's huge um differences in libido is i think probably one of the number one things we see for couples counseling um so it's normal if you're out there and experiencing that it's normal desire can be grown in some people but it takes hard work and it takes a lot of that looking inward that i think makes men very afraid right they haven't been told that they're allowed to do that

Yeah.

That's huge.

Um, differences in libido is I think probably one of the number one things we see for couples counseling.

Um, so it's normal if you're out there and experiencing that it's normal desire can be grown in some people.

But it takes hard work and it takes a lot of that looking inward that I think makes men very afraid.

Right.

They haven't been told that they're allowed to do that, that they're allowed to be emotional and they're allowed to be soft.

that they're allowed to be emotional they're allowed to be soft and um women sometimes need that for emotional safety in order to really be able to be in their bodies and enjoy the sex that they are having that's number one thing like yeah you can be having lots of sex but are both people enjoying the sex that they're having that's important sometimes it's one-sided right

And women sometimes need that for emotional safety in order to really be able to be in their bodies and enjoy the sex that they are having.

That's number one thing.

Like, yeah, you can be having lots of sex, but are both people enjoying the sex that they're having?

Mm-hmm.

Mm hmm.

Quite often.

Quite often.

Unfortunately, that's the socialization of women is kind of, this is our job we're supposed to do.

Unfortunately, that's the socialization of women is kind of this is our job we're supposed to do.