Ariana Throne

But a lot of people are not getting the guidance and education they need to do it well.

So they're not doing it ethically.

So they're not doing it ethically.

They're hurting people in the process.

They're hurting people in the process.

And then when it all burns around them, they're saying, oh, polyamory is the problem.

And then when it all burns around them, they're saying, oh, polyamory is the problem.

Well, okay, you can have unhealthy monogamy as well.

Well, okay, you can have unhealthy monogamy as well.

That doesn't mean you turn around and say monogamy is the problem, right?

That doesn't mean you turn around and say monogamy is the problem, right?

It's just that you're not doing it in an ethical way.

It's just that you're not doing it in an ethical way.

There's a lot of trip and fall in polyamory, especially in the beginning.

There's a lot of trip and fall in polyamory, especially in the beginning.

There's a lot of hard lessons you just kind of got to learn.

There's a lot of hard lessons you just kind of got to learn.

And the decolonizing of your mind is huge, right?

And the decolonizing of your mind is huge, right?

Like there are so many social scripts we have about romantic relationship and gender responsibilities and jealousy being love, right?