Ariana Throne

Is having a crush allowed?

But we don't really talk about these things because there's a standard in monogamy.

But we don't really talk about these things because there's a standard in monogamy.

Once you go into polyamory, it's like, OK, do we want to give sex this much power where it's on this pedestal and it's the thing that defines our relationship?

Once you go into polyamory, it's like, OK, do we want to give sex this much power where it's on this pedestal and it's the thing that defines our relationship?

Or are there other things that make it so that we are romantic love?

Or are there other things that make it so that we are romantic love?

My third belief is that my body's mine to say yes with, but also no with.

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My third belief is that my body's mine to say yes with, but also no with.

And it's important to own your yes just as much as your no.

And it's important to own your yes just as much as your no.

So I've had jealous partners own my body more than even kind of sexual assaults.

So I've had jealous partners own my body more than even kind of sexual assaults.

And I never want to be in that position where I'm an object and I'm owned by someone.

And I never want to be in that position where I'm an object and I'm owned by someone.

So those beliefs about sexuality combined with the fact that we're not penguins.

So those beliefs about sexuality combined with the fact that we're not penguins.

we are attracted to more than one person in our lifetime like at least I am I think most people are and we fall in love more than one time in a lifetime and we don't control time so arguing with biology isn't necessarily going to make that go away so why don't we talk about it why don't we open it up and have a conversation in our relationship okay since this is a natural part of biology do we want to include it in our relationship or not and if so how do we want to do that

we are attracted to more than one person in our lifetime like at least I am I think most people are and we fall in love more than one time in a lifetime and we don't control time so arguing with biology isn't necessarily going to make that go away so why don't we talk about it why don't we open it up and have a conversation in our relationship okay since this is a natural part of biology do we want to include it in our relationship or not and if so how do we want to do that