Arthur Brooks

Or having a whole bunch of potential people in a group that will actually meet in a mixture.

You know, that's a good way to do it too.

Polycule.

Yeah.

Uh-huh.

and then pair up if it's meant to be or make friends if it's not.

And so those are ways that we actually do that.

But the point of the matter is that the human brain is highly attuned toward this incredibly complex, indescribable,

experience of falling in love.

That's one of the reasons that all country and Western songs are about romantic love.

That's the reason that the greatest poetry is about romantic love, because it's not described scientifically, it's described artistically, because it's a right hemispheric experience.

So you want to turn on the meaning in your life,

Go get your heart broken.

I mean, go take a risk.

I mean, that's when you find the meaning of your life, right?

I mean, when you've had your heart broken, that's horrible and that's hard, but that's meaning rich.

That's when you ask all those big questions.

You'll be definitely alive.

You'll learn a lot about yourself.

You'll learn a lot about yourself, right?