Arthur Brooks

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They don't learn from remorse because they don't have remorse.

They don't learn from remorse because they don't have remorse.

They don't learn from remorse because they don't have remorse.

Dark triads, or you like to talk about dark tetrads if you're bringing sadism, of course. But the characteristic of people above average in psychopathy is the lack of remorse. And a lack of remorse is an inability to learn. Yes. You hurt somebody. You did something wrong. It had consequences if you don't feel remorse.

Dark triads, or you like to talk about dark tetrads if you're bringing sadism, of course. But the characteristic of people above average in psychopathy is the lack of remorse. And a lack of remorse is an inability to learn. Yes. You hurt somebody. You did something wrong. It had consequences if you don't feel remorse.

Dark triads, or you like to talk about dark tetrads if you're bringing sadism, of course. But the characteristic of people above average in psychopathy is the lack of remorse. And a lack of remorse is an inability to learn. Yes. You hurt somebody. You did something wrong. It had consequences if you don't feel remorse.

That remorse is activating the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex of your brain, which is making you feel social pain. Right. You don't feel that if you have psychopathic tendencies.

That remorse is activating the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex of your brain, which is making you feel social pain. Right. You don't feel that if you have psychopathic tendencies.

That remorse is activating the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex of your brain, which is making you feel social pain. Right. You don't feel that if you have psychopathic tendencies.

Uh-huh.

Uh-huh.

Uh-huh.

When a dominance back to your wife talking about gratitude, by the way, because the same thing is the prefrontal cortex saying, no, no, no, no, no. You limbic system evolved to feel resentment. That's not, that's not, that's maladaptive. Yes. And I have decided to reprogram the limbic system, which tends toward resentment. And I'm going to reprogram it. It's the same basic pattern.

When a dominance back to your wife talking about gratitude, by the way, because the same thing is the prefrontal cortex saying, no, no, no, no, no. You limbic system evolved to feel resentment. That's not, that's not, that's maladaptive. Yes. And I have decided to reprogram the limbic system, which tends toward resentment. And I'm going to reprogram it. It's the same basic pattern.

When a dominance back to your wife talking about gratitude, by the way, because the same thing is the prefrontal cortex saying, no, no, no, no, no. You limbic system evolved to feel resentment. That's not, that's not, that's maladaptive. Yes. And I have decided to reprogram the limbic system, which tends toward resentment. And I'm going to reprogram it. It's the same basic pattern.

This is self, this is self-management. This is the essence of self-leadership. Doing what feels good, if it feels good, do it. If it feels bad, avoid it. It's being managed by your ancestors.

This is self, this is self-management. This is the essence of self-leadership. Doing what feels good, if it feels good, do it. If it feels bad, avoid it. It's being managed by your ancestors.

This is self, this is self-management. This is the essence of self-leadership. Doing what feels good, if it feels good, do it. If it feels bad, avoid it. It's being managed by your ancestors.

Because the neuromodulator activity in the limbic system of the lobster brain. Because, once again, because psychology is biology. The lobster can't do anything about that. The big dominant alpha lobster, if there is such a thing, is going to fight to try to maintain that position.