Arthur C. Brooks
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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For what would you give your life right now?
Right now.
Happily give your life right now.
These are hard to articulate.
They're hard to hear.
Yeah.
Why?
Why do you love your husband?
And almost anything you say, it's like, it trivializes it.
Because he's good to me.
No, I mean, like, yeah, so is your third grade teacher.
You know, I mean, it's not.
Exactly right.
And so one of the things that's really, really useful is that
People, you know, when you have people over to your house and it's just not that fun.
It's just like that.
And the reason is because you never go deep, right?
And the times when people do come over and you didn't even know them very well and you're like, that was so satisfying.
The reason is because you went deep into the right hemispheres of your brain.
So here's the way to do it when you're having a dinner party with somebody.