Ashley Darby

And it was hard.

It was very hard to do.

Watching it back is really hard.

Such a good man.

Well, yeah, because there are the five non-negotiables and, you know, I love me some Patty Stanger, millionaire matchmaker back in the day.

But I've developed my own non-negotiables and children is like the most paramount one.

And when I was with my ex-husband, he didn't want to have children.

And I sort of convinced him to do that.

And I feel as though it sort of contributed to the downfall of our marriage because I think he just started to resent me a little bit.

He loves our sons, but he wasn't, I don't think Michael ever wanted to like slow his life down to have kids again.

He had done that.

And so I convinced him to do it again.

And I think it contributed to the downfall of our marriage.

And so I never want someone to have to convince me ever because it just doesn't breed love.

the right feelings that partners have toward each other.

Because as we all know, having children really changes the dynamic of a relationship.

So you want everyone to all be on the same page.

And that's just a, it's a big one and money, you know, like,

The other thing was financial, where we are financially.

He said, you don't know about my finances.