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Ashley Flowers

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Appearances Over Time

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

His cousin Catherine thought that it might have been dyslexia, but it didn't affect his social functioning or the way he moved through the world.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

He and Dawn had just celebrated their one-year wedding anniversary the month before, though they'd been together for years before that.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

And from what investigators were told, it appeared to be a happy, affectionate relationship.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

The two didn't have a ton of time to spend together.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

Tom worked nights, Dawn days.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

But that actually was about to change.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

Until then, the main time that they had together was on the weekends, and then that window of time on weekdays after Dawn got home and before Tom left.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

That's when they would eat dinner and watch their favorite shows together.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

Exactly what they were doing on Monday, September 30th.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

Investigators talked to those who knew the couple, family members and friends, especially their closest friends, Amy and Dave Baranek.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

The Baronics hung out with the Mathers all the time, going out to bars on the weekends, staying home and playing cards.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

They'd known each other for a long time and were extremely close.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

I mean, Dave had even been Tom's best man at their wedding.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

And both Amy and Dave said that the couple seemed happy.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

And every time they were together, they were playing around like five-year-olds, wrestling with each other.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

And Don's brother told deputies that they were constantly kissing in public.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

But despite everyone saying the couple was picture-perfect and happy, there was something about it that investigators just didn't completely buy early on.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

They couldn't disprove anything anyone was saying, but it was the things Dawn was saying and doing that made them suspicious, starting all the way back on the night that Tom died.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

When police began collecting statements from neighbors, EMTs, and friends who had responded to the house where Dawn had found refuge, they all seemed to have had encounters with Dawn that they felt were awkward or strange considering what had just unfolded in her home.

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Thomas Mather (Seven of Diamonds from Iowa)

Investigators know that shock and trauma can scramble language, distort time, and fracture memory.