Ashley McElvey

I said, you know, here's the thing.

No matter how small the wedding is, there's just like all these decisions that need to get made.

And I'm a little bit of a control freak.

And I feel like if there are decisions that need to be made, I need to make them.

And on the other hand, I don't care about any of this and I just need it to get done.

And she said, do you really not care?

And I said, I really don't.

I said, if it is a good, nice time and a lovely wedding, that's great.

And if it's a shit show, Eric and I will tell stories about that for the rest of our lives.

So like, I'm good either way.

And she said, I think you should make the fewest decisions possible.

And I realized that was correct.

And there's this place called Sweetgrass Weddings, and they will do as much as you ask them to do.

They did everything but buy my dress, basically.

And I called them, and I was talking to them about our situation, and I really liked their vibe.

And I said, be honest, can we even get married in October?

And she said, well, do you want to get married in a barn or a barn or a historical building?

And I was like, ooh, historical building, please.

And she said, yeah, you can get married October 24.

And I just said, let's do it.