Ashley Trujillo

I texted Sarah and I said, listen, if this is the route that you're going to go down, I can't be a part of this. I can't understand how you could do this. And if you want to explain it to me, I'm willing to listen, but I can't support this. And she said, I don't need to explain my feelings to anybody. I am doing what I'm doing and it's not my responsibility to make sure that you understand.

I just want everybody to let me do what I want to do. And I said, well, I respect your decision to have a choice, but I don't respect your choice. And I'm not going to be a part of this any longer. And she said, that's all I'm asking for is a little bit of respect, not understanding. But I will live with my choices for the rest of my life. And those are my choices.

I just want everybody to let me do what I want to do. And I said, well, I respect your decision to have a choice, but I don't respect your choice. And I'm not going to be a part of this any longer. And she said, that's all I'm asking for is a little bit of respect, not understanding. But I will live with my choices for the rest of my life. And those are my choices.

I just want everybody to let me do what I want to do. And I said, well, I respect your decision to have a choice, but I don't respect your choice. And I'm not going to be a part of this any longer. And she said, that's all I'm asking for is a little bit of respect, not understanding. But I will live with my choices for the rest of my life. And those are my choices.

I'm so glad to talk to you specifically because actually you were the one I wanted to talk to when I first emailed in to the podcast. It was, does Ashley have any advice for, you know, the friends and the family when you first went back to Jason, when you first did that? And I'm certain everybody around you was like, why, why are you doing that? And for me, even now with Sarah and,

I'm so glad to talk to you specifically because actually you were the one I wanted to talk to when I first emailed in to the podcast. It was, does Ashley have any advice for, you know, the friends and the family when you first went back to Jason, when you first did that? And I'm certain everybody around you was like, why, why are you doing that? And for me, even now with Sarah and,

I'm so glad to talk to you specifically because actually you were the one I wanted to talk to when I first emailed in to the podcast. It was, does Ashley have any advice for, you know, the friends and the family when you first went back to Jason, when you first did that? And I'm certain everybody around you was like, why, why are you doing that? And for me, even now with Sarah and,

Do I yell these things at her? Or should I have just shut up? Should I have just said what she wanted, which was I'm here to support you no matter what, even when I didn't agree? What would you have wanted?

Do I yell these things at her? Or should I have just shut up? Should I have just said what she wanted, which was I'm here to support you no matter what, even when I didn't agree? What would you have wanted?

Do I yell these things at her? Or should I have just shut up? Should I have just said what she wanted, which was I'm here to support you no matter what, even when I didn't agree? What would you have wanted?

Yeah. You don't know if you would have heard it no matter what anybody had said. And that's, I think that's how I felt with Sarah. I've always had a very open, honest relationship with her because that's just how I am personally. I don't tend to keep things in. If I want to say something, I say it. So it was really hard. The way I described everything was just walking on eggshells.

Yeah. You don't know if you would have heard it no matter what anybody had said. And that's, I think that's how I felt with Sarah. I've always had a very open, honest relationship with her because that's just how I am personally. I don't tend to keep things in. If I want to say something, I say it. So it was really hard. The way I described everything was just walking on eggshells.

Yeah. You don't know if you would have heard it no matter what anybody had said. And that's, I think that's how I felt with Sarah. I've always had a very open, honest relationship with her because that's just how I am personally. I don't tend to keep things in. If I want to say something, I say it. So it was really hard. The way I described everything was just walking on eggshells.

When we left her house that weekend that we were there right after it happened, we went to her sister and brother-in-law's house. And I remember just sitting at the table and just crying because it felt like a release just to talk to people normally, just to say what I wanted to say. Because you have to be very careful, especially we don't have to be, but I felt like I needed to be very careful.

When we left her house that weekend that we were there right after it happened, we went to her sister and brother-in-law's house. And I remember just sitting at the table and just crying because it felt like a release just to talk to people normally, just to say what I wanted to say. Because you have to be very careful, especially we don't have to be, but I felt like I needed to be very careful.

When we left her house that weekend that we were there right after it happened, we went to her sister and brother-in-law's house. And I remember just sitting at the table and just crying because it felt like a release just to talk to people normally, just to say what I wanted to say. Because you have to be very careful, especially we don't have to be, but I felt like I needed to be very careful.

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Sarah and I talked about your story, Ashley, because your season was the one that she had told me about and that I had watched at the beginning of January. And, you know, she said, this is just like that Hulu episode. And I said, yeah, it's exactly like that.