Ashley Trujillo

To me, she never said, I feel like she's choosing him. I feel abandoned. I feel left out. They are so very, very close, which was one of the questions that I wanted to come in with today, which is if I do not continue a relationship with her mother. And to be really honest, at this point, I don't know if I can. I don't know yet. But if I don't, how would I explain to her daughter?

To me, she never said, I feel like she's choosing him. I feel abandoned. I feel left out. They are so very, very close, which was one of the questions that I wanted to come in with today, which is if I do not continue a relationship with her mother. And to be really honest, at this point, I don't know if I can. I don't know yet. But if I don't, how would I explain to her daughter?

To me, she never said, I feel like she's choosing him. I feel abandoned. I feel left out. They are so very, very close, which was one of the questions that I wanted to come in with today, which is if I do not continue a relationship with her mother. And to be really honest, at this point, I don't know if I can. I don't know yet. But if I don't, how would I explain to her daughter?

Just because you're close with your mom doesn't mean you need to follow what she's doing. Doesn't mean it's okay. And how do I continue to support her and say those things without her daughter pushing me away? Just because we're disagreeing with her mother who she's so loyal to.

Just because you're close with your mom doesn't mean you need to follow what she's doing. Doesn't mean it's okay. And how do I continue to support her and say those things without her daughter pushing me away? Just because we're disagreeing with her mother who she's so loyal to.

Just because you're close with your mom doesn't mean you need to follow what she's doing. Doesn't mean it's okay. And how do I continue to support her and say those things without her daughter pushing me away? Just because we're disagreeing with her mother who she's so loyal to.

That does help a lot because that was a big question I had. You know, what do we say?

That does help a lot because that was a big question I had. You know, what do we say?

That does help a lot because that was a big question I had. You know, what do we say?

Yeah, and that makes perfect sense. And I remember one of the last things I said to Sarah was, when you go into that courtroom, you have to pick a side to sit on. You can sit with your daughter or you can sit with your husband. And I hope that you're able to make the right choice. And I didn't tell her what I thought the right choice was.

Yeah, and that makes perfect sense. And I remember one of the last things I said to Sarah was, when you go into that courtroom, you have to pick a side to sit on. You can sit with your daughter or you can sit with your husband. And I hope that you're able to make the right choice. And I didn't tell her what I thought the right choice was.

Yeah, and that makes perfect sense. And I remember one of the last things I said to Sarah was, when you go into that courtroom, you have to pick a side to sit on. You can sit with your daughter or you can sit with your husband. And I hope that you're able to make the right choice. And I didn't tell her what I thought the right choice was.

But I told her, you can choose whatever you want, but there are consequences to your choices. And this is a consequence because there was no way to continue forward with him in her life still in that way, in my opinion. I didn't do it as a punishment. This is not a it's him or me situation. It was never that. So Jess, was drawing that boundary at that time the right thing to do?

But I told her, you can choose whatever you want, but there are consequences to your choices. And this is a consequence because there was no way to continue forward with him in her life still in that way, in my opinion. I didn't do it as a punishment. This is not a it's him or me situation. It was never that. So Jess, was drawing that boundary at that time the right thing to do?

But I told her, you can choose whatever you want, but there are consequences to your choices. And this is a consequence because there was no way to continue forward with him in her life still in that way, in my opinion. I didn't do it as a punishment. This is not a it's him or me situation. It was never that. So Jess, was drawing that boundary at that time the right thing to do?

I was so looking forward to talking to both of you today, but I love hearing that from a therapist point of view, from a licensed therapist point of view, because I never thought about that. You know, like I said, I went with my husband literally saying the same things over and over, begging him, pretend I'm not an adult and tell me exactly step by step, what do I do?

I was so looking forward to talking to both of you today, but I love hearing that from a therapist point of view, from a licensed therapist point of view, because I never thought about that. You know, like I said, I went with my husband literally saying the same things over and over, begging him, pretend I'm not an adult and tell me exactly step by step, what do I do?

I was so looking forward to talking to both of you today, but I love hearing that from a therapist point of view, from a licensed therapist point of view, because I never thought about that. You know, like I said, I went with my husband literally saying the same things over and over, begging him, pretend I'm not an adult and tell me exactly step by step, what do I do?

That's all I want right now is for somebody to tell me exactly what to do. Pretend I'm a child, give me the next steps because I don't know anymore. But I kind of landed on it with, I guess now it is about me at this point. And whether is that moral issue that I have a problem with, even though I understand that it is a moral issue that I have within myself. Do I now continue the friendship?

That's all I want right now is for somebody to tell me exactly what to do. Pretend I'm a child, give me the next steps because I don't know anymore. But I kind of landed on it with, I guess now it is about me at this point. And whether is that moral issue that I have a problem with, even though I understand that it is a moral issue that I have within myself. Do I now continue the friendship?