Ashley

And we had, like, a few drinks. And then we came back. And then he was, like, sitting on the couch. And his tone was kind of weird. And I just was like, okay. Like, I drink red wine, too. So I'm, like, kind of sleepy. And he's like, I need to talk to you. And I'm like, okay, about what? And so I sit down. He's like, sit down. Oh, no, he said sit down.

I'm like, when someone says that, it immediately makes me anxious.

I'm like, when someone says that, it immediately makes me anxious.

I'm like, when someone says that, it immediately makes me anxious.

And so I'm like. And this is worse when they text you it.

And so I'm like. And this is worse when they text you it.

And so I'm like. And this is worse when they text you it.

Later, later. Just pause and don't say it, you know? So I sit down and I'm like, what? And so he's just like sitting there staring in the weirdest way. And I go, please tell me you don't have an STD. Nope.

Later, later. Just pause and don't say it, you know? So I sit down and I'm like, what? And so he's just like sitting there staring in the weirdest way. And I go, please tell me you don't have an STD. Nope.

Later, later. Just pause and don't say it, you know? So I sit down and I'm like, what? And so he's just like sitting there staring in the weirdest way. And I go, please tell me you don't have an STD. Nope.

You know, because that would be, I'm sorry, not against anyone who does, but, like, that's something I should know, again, prior to getting married and being sexually active, right?

You know, because that would be, I'm sorry, not against anyone who does, but, like, that's something I should know, again, prior to getting married and being sexually active, right?

You know, because that would be, I'm sorry, not against anyone who does, but, like, that's something I should know, again, prior to getting married and being sexually active, right?

There's no... Yeah, and so he's like, no. And I'm like, oh, okay. I'm like, what, you got some kids or something? Oh, no.

There's no... Yeah, and so he's like, no. And I'm like, oh, okay. I'm like, what, you got some kids or something? Oh, no.

There's no... Yeah, and so he's like, no. And I'm like, oh, okay. I'm like, what, you got some kids or something? Oh, no.

No, he doesn't laugh. And my heart sank to the ground. I feel like I'm put back there right now as I'm telling you the story. And I'm like, what do you mean? And so he begins to deep dive into the conversation a little, not fully. I won't say deep dive. He begins to allude.

No, he doesn't laugh. And my heart sank to the ground. I feel like I'm put back there right now as I'm telling you the story. And I'm like, what do you mean? And so he begins to deep dive into the conversation a little, not fully. I won't say deep dive. He begins to allude.

No, he doesn't laugh. And my heart sank to the ground. I feel like I'm put back there right now as I'm telling you the story. And I'm like, what do you mean? And so he begins to deep dive into the conversation a little, not fully. I won't say deep dive. He begins to allude.

To the fact that he was a sperm donor for, you know, a lesbian couple who was married and, you know, he was afraid to tell me because he didn't want to lose me. And I was like, that's robbery. You robbed me of my choice because in the pods, like all factors are at play. You know, and I was so caught off guard. We talked from like 11 until 4 a.m. about the situation.