Ashley

So for me, it was refreshing for him to say like, yeah, they probably would say I wasn't the best. And he's been vocal about that. Like I wasn't the best dating at all, you know? And so for me, that wasn't a red flag.

yeah that's a red flag yeah like 100% like I feel like in past relationships I've been top tier but on reflection I know there are things that I did that didn't help right and so if you can't even say that like if you can't even say like yeah it takes two to tango then that's a problem so whereas other people seen it as a red flag I seen it as a green flag in that moment and

yeah that's a red flag yeah like 100% like I feel like in past relationships I've been top tier but on reflection I know there are things that I did that didn't help right and so if you can't even say that like if you can't even say like yeah it takes two to tango then that's a problem so whereas other people seen it as a red flag I seen it as a green flag in that moment and

yeah that's a red flag yeah like 100% like I feel like in past relationships I've been top tier but on reflection I know there are things that I did that didn't help right and so if you can't even say that like if you can't even say like yeah it takes two to tango then that's a problem so whereas other people seen it as a red flag I seen it as a green flag in that moment and

Yeah. And so then like fast forward, we have that minor conversation to where I'm like truly hurt and want to give the viewers a little glimpse of what I know to some capacity. And then they show us again when it's dark and we're having another conversation. And I ask him, do they know what you look like? And he says, oh, my God, I don't think so.

Yeah. And so then like fast forward, we have that minor conversation to where I'm like truly hurt and want to give the viewers a little glimpse of what I know to some capacity. And then they show us again when it's dark and we're having another conversation. And I ask him, do they know what you look like? And he says, oh, my God, I don't think so.

Yeah. And so then like fast forward, we have that minor conversation to where I'm like truly hurt and want to give the viewers a little glimpse of what I know to some capacity. And then they show us again when it's dark and we're having another conversation. And I ask him, do they know what you look like? And he says, oh, my God, I don't think so.

He pauses, looks to his left, and goes, tell, that's a tell. Immediately I knew. Immediately. I don't think so.

He pauses, looks to his left, and goes, tell, that's a tell. Immediately I knew. Immediately. I don't think so.

He pauses, looks to his left, and goes, tell, that's a tell. Immediately I knew. Immediately. I don't think so.

What the hell does think mean? So immediately from there, when he says that, I knew. So that evening we had another conversation. And that's the conversation that I learned it all.

What the hell does think mean? So immediately from there, when he says that, I knew. So that evening we had another conversation. And that's the conversation that I learned it all.

What the hell does think mean? So immediately from there, when he says that, I knew. So that evening we had another conversation. And that's the conversation that I learned it all.

Yeah. And even my mom was just like, this is a very sticky situation, Ashley. So how you guys approach it needs to be, you know, right. Cause she's like, they will taunt these kids in this family if they want more, you know, more information.

Yeah. And even my mom was just like, this is a very sticky situation, Ashley. So how you guys approach it needs to be, you know, right. Cause she's like, they will taunt these kids in this family if they want more, you know, more information.

Yeah. And even my mom was just like, this is a very sticky situation, Ashley. So how you guys approach it needs to be, you know, right. Cause she's like, they will taunt these kids in this family if they want more, you know, more information.

And I'm like, yeah, but at the same time, if it does come out and I don't talk about it, they'll think I'm shocked, which they end up thinking, I don't know, like, Why they think I wouldn't know this. But regardless, I felt it had to be said in a way. So it was hard for me to navigate.

And I'm like, yeah, but at the same time, if it does come out and I don't talk about it, they'll think I'm shocked, which they end up thinking, I don't know, like, Why they think I wouldn't know this. But regardless, I felt it had to be said in a way. So it was hard for me to navigate.

And I'm like, yeah, but at the same time, if it does come out and I don't talk about it, they'll think I'm shocked, which they end up thinking, I don't know, like, Why they think I wouldn't know this. But regardless, I felt it had to be said in a way. So it was hard for me to navigate.

I'm just so used to being very transparent that it was hard for me to navigate that conversation, too, to try to make sure I didn't divulge anything. Like he said, you know, there are three of them as a lesbian couple, like, you know, whatever. Offline, you know, he shows me pictures. That was more questions for me.