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The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

So 100%. And for me, like when I specifically seen the boy, it like kind of broke my heart a little bit because he looks a lot like him. And I just like loved him immediately through a picture because I love Tyler so much. So it was very awkward for me to navigate as well. But this is the reason why. It came a point where Tyler, so a lot of the pictures, they're younger, like whatever.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

So 100%. And for me, like when I specifically seen the boy, it like kind of broke my heart a little bit because he looks a lot like him. And I just like loved him immediately through a picture because I love Tyler so much. So it was very awkward for me to navigate as well. But this is the reason why. It came a point where Tyler, so a lot of the pictures, they're younger, like whatever.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

So 100%. And for me, like when I specifically seen the boy, it like kind of broke my heart a little bit because he looks a lot like him. And I just like loved him immediately through a picture because I love Tyler so much. So it was very awkward for me to navigate as well. But this is the reason why. It came a point where Tyler, so a lot of the pictures, they're younger, like whatever.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

He was never, ever, ever around on a daily basis, weekly basis, monthly basis. There were times he wouldn't see them at all. Like he lived in Arlington. They've never been to his apartment, like things like that. He tried to back back and like back off at certain points. And I know that she wanted him present.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

He was never, ever, ever around on a daily basis, weekly basis, monthly basis. There were times he wouldn't see them at all. Like he lived in Arlington. They've never been to his apartment, like things like that. He tried to back back and like back off at certain points. And I know that she wanted him present.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

He was never, ever, ever around on a daily basis, weekly basis, monthly basis. There were times he wouldn't see them at all. Like he lived in Arlington. They've never been to his apartment, like things like that. He tried to back back and like back off at certain points. And I know that she wanted him present.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

And he was trying to navigate like how to be there for him for them and also be her friend as well. And like they were in the army together. Like I said, like this is not just a stranger. And so I think it would be it's hard for people to digest, too, because in a normal sperm donor situation, I mean, you can pick and choose your involvement.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

And he was trying to navigate like how to be there for him for them and also be her friend as well. And like they were in the army together. Like I said, like this is not just a stranger. And so I think it would be it's hard for people to digest, too, because in a normal sperm donor situation, I mean, you can pick and choose your involvement.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

And he was trying to navigate like how to be there for him for them and also be her friend as well. And like they were in the army together. Like I said, like this is not just a stranger. And so I think it would be it's hard for people to digest, too, because in a normal sperm donor situation, I mean, you can pick and choose your involvement.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

But most of the time you aren't that involved unless it is like a sister or like a friend or whatever. Right. So he came to a point where he, whenever she would be in a new relationship, you know, with the new woman, she wants to have a family with a woman. And he would always be on the outside looking in. He has no rights. He can't say where they go to school. He can't say anything.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

But most of the time you aren't that involved unless it is like a sister or like a friend or whatever. Right. So he came to a point where he, whenever she would be in a new relationship, you know, with the new woman, she wants to have a family with a woman. And he would always be on the outside looking in. He has no rights. He can't say where they go to school. He can't say anything.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

But most of the time you aren't that involved unless it is like a sister or like a friend or whatever. Right. So he came to a point where he, whenever she would be in a new relationship, you know, with the new woman, she wants to have a family with a woman. And he would always be on the outside looking in. He has no rights. He can't say where they go to school. He can't say anything.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

He can't discipline. He can't do anything. So to him, he's like, I pop up and I'm an uncle and I play with them and I kiki. I wear these dad t-shirts that your grandma, the grandma, her mom is giving me, you know, and put on this, you know, face. But this is not my family. I'm on the outside looking in it. And originally I did this to help someone else.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

He can't discipline. He can't do anything. So to him, he's like, I pop up and I'm an uncle and I play with them and I kiki. I wear these dad t-shirts that your grandma, the grandma, her mom is giving me, you know, and put on this, you know, face. But this is not my family. I'm on the outside looking in it. And originally I did this to help someone else.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

He can't discipline. He can't do anything. So to him, he's like, I pop up and I'm an uncle and I play with them and I kiki. I wear these dad t-shirts that your grandma, the grandma, her mom is giving me, you know, and put on this, you know, face. But this is not my family. I'm on the outside looking in it. And originally I did this to help someone else.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

And then I put myself in this very uncomfortable situation. And that's why I tell people I think he was a good guy that got too deep and didn't know what to do next. So when he finally decided to cut the situation off, of course, it's awkward and it hurts him as well to know about the kids. But he felt like it was better to do it now than to wait any longer. And he's like, I want my own family.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

And then I put myself in this very uncomfortable situation. And that's why I tell people I think he was a good guy that got too deep and didn't know what to do next. So when he finally decided to cut the situation off, of course, it's awkward and it hurts him as well to know about the kids. But he felt like it was better to do it now than to wait any longer. And he's like, I want my own family.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

And then I put myself in this very uncomfortable situation. And that's why I tell people I think he was a good guy that got too deep and didn't know what to do next. So when he finally decided to cut the situation off, of course, it's awkward and it hurts him as well to know about the kids. But he felt like it was better to do it now than to wait any longer. And he's like, I want my own family.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

Like, I want my own things. Whereas she's probably like, well, damn, like you were around. You know why do this now? They just have two different perspectives, I would say. And I think that. Even Tyler's friends and parents. And again, it's kind of a little difficult for me to talk about this because I wasn't there. I'm only going off of the things that I know and the things I'm trusting.

The Viall Files
E836 - Going Deeper with Love Is Blind’s Ashley

Like, I want my own things. Whereas she's probably like, well, damn, like you were around. You know why do this now? They just have two different perspectives, I would say. And I think that. Even Tyler's friends and parents. And again, it's kind of a little difficult for me to talk about this because I wasn't there. I'm only going off of the things that I know and the things I'm trusting.